I know this guy that totally hits on every girl he meets, including me. He constantly asks me out. Probably at least 5 times every day. Although I see him as just a friend, and i've tried telling him that, he won't listen. He constantly tries everything to get me to go out with him. He even asks my friends to convince me for him. The problem is, I don't like him. What do I do, and how to I get him to stop without completely hurting him??
2007-04-26 12:16:48 · 15 answers · asked by gorgeous♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some men get the point without you completely hurting them, it's the ones that don't that you tippy toe around and try to get the point across suddenly that become obsessed and sometimes dangerous, if he hasn't gotten it yet he's not going too. Tell him you aren't interested now and you won't ever be so step off and leave you alone, or tell him you don't want to purse anything with him now or ever and if he wants to remain friends/acquaintances he needs to back off and stay out of your personal space. Don't be too shy cause this guy may never go away.
2007-04-26 12:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Italia 28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is asking out a whole bunch of girls then you definitely don't want him. If your friends tell you to go out with him, don't do it. Don't do anything you don't wan to do. Tell him that if he don't stop asking you, then you don't want him to talk to you anymore. This way there is really no pressure on you, other than getting up the nerve to say it. Would he rather stop asking you out and be friends, or not talk to you at all. It will all be up to him, and you really won't have to worry about it. Trust me this works, I just had a friend do the same thing to me.
2007-04-26 12:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chasity B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to bruise his feelings a bit to get the point across...some people just won't accept a polite 'no'.
Next time he asks have a serious face, tell him you just aren't interested in him that way and you'd really appreciate it if he'd stop asking you and pestering your friends because the more he does that, the bigger turn off he is to you. Tell him his behavior is harrassment and if it doesn't stop, you'll have to get some adults involved.
2007-04-26 12:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I wre u I would just ignore him, because if u are a compationate person and accept he would just ask another girl to go out with him( he is a player), so just ignore him. I am sure u won't hurt him by rejecting him, because sooner he will find another girl to bugg.
2007-04-26 12:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Naila 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't see him like that and if he cannot respect your decision and stop what he is doing, then you're going to have to stop talking to him. Maybe that will work. Or maybe it won't : )
Good luck, anyways.
2007-04-26 12:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and how you don't want to hurt him, but there's really no other solution than to be painfully direct to him. He won't stop until you make it absolutely clear you're not interested.
2007-04-26 12:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a big game to this kid now. He wants to see if he can add you to his list of conquests, and won't let up until you say yes. Tell him no, and make it stick!!
2007-04-26 12:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you dont like him like that, and to get over it. The guy probally has ADD (had a guy in my grade who was the same).
2007-04-26 12:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are just making yourself look good, not really asking a question..
2007-04-26 12:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a guy to go out with and have the your guy with you when you see him
2007-04-26 12:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by focus_e_us360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋