I need out of my abusive relationship with my mother?

Question

She is literally torching me, She is control everything about me... She is reading my diary and signin on my yahoo and checkin my e-mails, Listenin in on my phone conversations. I've asked her to stop. And she yells that she's the adult she can do what she wants.. She's Bipolar and so am I. She is makin me work in the yard but not my brother or my sister. She is a single mom okay and me and bf have sex but we are engaged to get married. She is sleepin with some guy that she barely knows but then she calls me a whore and a slut. I can't listen to rap or rock. I'm not allowed to go anywhere unless it's with my bf I can't hang out with my friends. and she keeps hittin on my bf. It's gross She hits me and yells for no reason that she wishes she would have had that miscarriage Can u pls help me get out of my house?

Answer 1

I assume you are underage. I suggest you get a job and start saving money so when you turn 18 you can move out.

If she is hitting you, you can report her to the police for assault but be prepared to be removed from the home and be put in state care.

Answer 2

OMG, I thought my mom was bad!
1. Get rid of your diary. No need to have something around that personal that she will get into. (Or keep it somewhere else).
2. Change your password on your yahoo account.
3 Realize that once you are 18, you can move out of the house and you are your own boss! (And it is wonderful, let me tell you!!!)

Answer 3

That is a destructive lifestyle on all sides.Bring more of your family and his family to the table and have a deep talk.If your mother is abusive then the local DHR or police should be involved.If your mature enough to be engaged and to have sex,then you should consider all options including leaving for good.Best of luck, it will not always be like this.

Answer 4

How old are you? It sounds like its about that time for you to either move out for college or into your own place.

If she takes medication it sound like she may need it adjusted, or she may be taking out the frustrations of her own younger self on you.

Its not good to live in these conditions, with verbal and physical abuse...if you are old enough and have the means, I'd start saving $ and move into your own apartment -- maybe with your boyfriend or friends. Best decision I ever made!

Answer 5

Talk to someone, like a counselor, at school. Some of the things you've said make me think that things are bad enough that you really, really need to get out of there.

Answer 6

You could call the police if you wanted to but, if you don't want to do that get married sooner and get a different house to live in. Also if you are a Christian you should pray to God for your problems to be fixed.

Answer 7

Social services, if you are under 17. She needs her medication straightened out and they can help that happen. If you are over 17, get a job and get out on your own. She sounds scary. If you have younger siblings, they may need your assistance in getting her help.

Answer 8

I was in a similar situation. I waited until I got older, got a job, moved out, and finally disowned her. Now, I couldn't be happier or more at peace! Toxic people drag you down with them.

Answer 9

You need to talk with your Grand Parents or a school adviser. Either one can help you.
Good Luck.

Answer 10

How old are you? well any way sit down with you mom and talk about her behavior, or move in with your father or other relitives, search online for groupd that can get your mothe counseling.