I am very deep in love with my girlfriend Wendy. Being together for 1 year and six months and I can never get enough of her.
I have the urge to propose to her, but I have a problem.
I have a problem when people/objects shock me, I scream random words or sudden emotional outburst. I also twitch in places I've never been before..At first she found that scary, but later she learned to live with it.
I'm not sure if she still finds it creepy.
But her parents say they want "normal" grandchildren.
And adding to that, I'm asian and she's mexican. Our parents don't really beleive in "different ethnic matrimony'.
Should I propose? Or stay away for the sake of her parents? I've seen her glance at rings now and then...
2007-04-26 12:03:34 · 10 answers · asked by Keit' AlMode 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
[Hey! Keit's my hubbie's name too. ;)]
But first off, ask her if it does...if she really loves you, then she wouldn't mind. Trust me. My Keit has twitching problems too at points, but I learnd to live with it too.
PROPOSE. PROPOSE.PROPOSE.
I happen to be Mexican and Keit is Korean, we have been married for 2 years and we're loving life.
Parents will be parents. It's your choice. Your the one that's in love, they've had their fun.
<3 Just remembr to propose at the right time, when both of you are comfortable...
Very, very best wishes.
Jumie=]
2007-04-26 12:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do that glance bit all the time. But if your parents and her parents do not like the idea, your asking for trouble. If you do get hitched you both may be loosing your families. And it will make a working marriage that much harder to work out. Then all either of you will have is each other. Is that acceptable?
2007-04-26 19:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have tourette's?
As for the marriage thing, that's between the two people involved. I am not a parent, but I would like to think that I would never disallow my child to marry someone because of their ethnicity. I think I would only hope for their happiness.
Good luck to you both, whatever you decide.
2007-04-26 19:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the problem, it may be best to talk to your doctor to find out if it could possibly be passed to any future children of yours. It it's treatable, you may be able to get medication to correct it in a way. If yo ureally love her, then propose. But you have to realize it may take a while for both of your parents to come around, and it could be hard and they may get angry. But do what your heart tells you, if you really want it.
2007-04-26 19:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't follow your heart you will spend the rest of your life wondering "what if". If you're adults and this is indeed true love then both your parents will have to get over it, and eventually they will. Good luck!
2007-04-26 19:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend about how you feel. If she wants to marry you and is willing to deal with your Tourette's, propose to her. Educate her parents about your condition. Good Luck!
2007-04-26 19:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Cambrianna S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is about how you feel, not how others feel. Do you love her? Can you imagine living the rest of your life without her? If you love her and can't imagine your life without her, propose and don't let anyone stop you.
2007-04-26 19:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love also means that it shouldn't matter what other people will think even if its her parents. if they love her as a daughter they should respect that she is in love with you regardless of race. it's really only between you and your partner. im asian also and my parents never really wanted me to date outside of our race but ever since i met my boyfriend for a year and 6 months now like yourself they grew fond of him and treat him as if his skin was asian. lol. anyways thats what i think.
2007-04-26 19:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by emily45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it, if you guys are both happy.
lifes too short to worry about what other people might say.
"normal grandchildren", what is "normal" anyway.
they should love there grandkids whether they are asian, mexican, red, green, or blue.
2007-04-26 19:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can go beyond your reach
2007-04-26 19:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Cookies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋