well when i talk to my boyfreind jimmy he always says he has to go or stuff like that and when we do talk he talks about his stupid skinny ex...but he alwaystells me he loves me but i some tmies dont belivle him...I LOVE HIM ALOT!!!!!
2007-04-26 11:26:08 · 18 answers · asked by iwillalwaysloveyou_619 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok,i understand u love him...but think:do u really want a guy that is a hypocrite?cause,i'm sorry but that is what he is...
it may hurt you but i believe you should leave him...and if he then realises that u r more to him than his ex,he'll run back to you and you'll be sure that he really loves you!
2007-05-04 08:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are having a hard time. It really sucks when you deal with the heart and the painful feelings. You should never have to question if someone loves you or not. If someone really loves you they would have enough respect for you to not continuously talk about their ex in-front of you. Real love should never have to question nor should you feel any doubt. It should just be something that feel.
2007-05-04 11:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Louwho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about how I feel. Let him know how much you care for him and see if he feels the same way. Let him know that you need him to spend time with you and work on talking to you more. If he doesn't respond positively, you may want to think about looking around some more. I am sure that you are a great person and there are other guys out there who will love you like you need to be loved. Good luck! :)
2007-05-04 11:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he Likes you. But does he Love you? I doubt it. He's still stuck on the Ex. Get him to talk it out. Guys have a hard time relating in personal relations. If he's still carrying a torch for her, you might as well be invisible except for the occasional tussle together. You might have been picked on the rebound.....sad..
2007-05-04 10:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by CeltJeweler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't being very fair to you. If you can't sort the issue out by talking about it with him, then you need to do what is going to make you happy in the long run. If you believe that he loves you, then that is all the matters.
2007-04-26 11:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by aqsgtriad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a polite way to tell him that you don't need to hear about his stupid skinny ex anymore. He should be focusing on you, if he really does love you.
2007-05-04 08:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you do not like the fact that he mentions is ex in front of you. If he really loves you, he will respect that, but you have to speak up. I am speaking from experience.
2007-05-04 11:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER BELIEVE IN WORDS. HE HAS TO PROVE BY ACTION,,,,,TO PROVE HE PUTS HIS STUFFS FIRST OVER YOU THAT MEANS HE DOES NOT REALLY LOVE YOU BUT JUST WANTS YOU TO BE HIS SECOND. HE HAS TO SHOW LOVE THROUGH ACTION NOT WORDS HE IS STILL HANGING OVER HIS BEAUTIIFUL EX THATS WHY HE BRINGS HER BACK INTO MEMORY, YOU ARE HIS SECOND CLASS LOVER.,.YOU LOVE AMAN WHO STILL THINKS ABOUT HIS EX AND ONLY USES WORDS TO LOVE AND NOT ACTION????? HOW CAN YOU BE SO NAIVE??????GET REAL AND TELL HIM EITHER LOVE YOU BY ACTING OUT HIS LOVE OR GO WITH HIS EX. THIS MAN HAS TWO HEARTS, THE REAL ONE IS FOR HER AND THE FAKE ONE YOU KEEP ...IN HIS MIND THERE IS ONLY HIS EX, THAT S WHY HE IS REMINDED OF BY HER WHILE BE THERE WITH YOU. but he may still be into his ex or even seeing her so u better watch out.
2007-04-26 11:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by ITZ JUSS ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that your boyfriend is not over his ex and he's not really in love with you. If you're doubting his love then indeed you guys stand on shaky ground. I think you should really think about continuing this relationship.
2007-05-04 10:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER BELIEVE IN WORDS. HE HAS TO PROVE BY ACTION,,,,,TO PROVE HE PUTS HIS STUFFS FIRST OVER YOU THAT MEANS HE DOES NOT REALLY LOVE YOU BUT JUST WANTS YOU TO BE HIS SECOND. HE HAS TO SHOW LOVE THROUGH ACTION NOT WORDS HE IS STILL HANGING OVER HIS BEAUTIIFUL EX THATS WHY HE BRINGS HER BACK INTO MEMORY, YOU ARE HIS SECOND CLASS LOVER.,.YOU LOVE AMAN WHO STILL THINKS ABOUT HIS EX AND ONLY USES WORDS TO LOVE AND NOT ACTION????? HOW CAN YOU BE SO NAIVE??????GET REAL AND TELL HIM EITHER LOVE YOU BY ACTING OUT HIS LOVE OR GO WITH HIS EX. THIS MAN HAS TWO HEARTS, THE REAL ONE IS FOR HER AND THE FAKE ONE YOU KEEP ...IN HIS MIND THERE IS ONLY HIS EX, THAT S WHY HE IS REMINDED OF BY HER WHILE BE THERE WITH YOU.
2007-04-26 11:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by tritran5555(poetri) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋