Should i fight to get her back?

Question

O.k. I dated her for a little over a week. I find this other girl who made me feel like what she couldn't. When i broke up with the girl i was dating i found out it was a mistake. I asked her already if she would give me a second chance but she said no. Then i called her and she decided to make me break up with the girl that i said before she would tell me. The next day she gave me the necklace I gave to her back with a long note saying how i was a jerk for breaking up with her for another girl. I have been trying but now i don't know what to do.

Answer 1

Cut your loses and move on. You wanted your cake and eat it too. Bad luck bud. Next time make sure you know what you're doing before you make a desicion you can't reverse.

Answer 2

Ok dude. Here we go.

This "going together" thing is way overblown. Don't bother with it. It just seems to cause big problems and lots of hurt feelings.

Basically, this is how it works. Boy A says to Girl A., "Ya wanna be my girl?" Girl A says, "Okey Dokey". Boy A and Girl A now have an agreement not to see anyone else.

1) Boy A sees Girl B. Boy A says to Girl B, "I wanna kissa u face." Girl B says, "Okey Dokey." Girl A sees Boy A kiss Girl B. Big trouble now for Boy A.

2) Boy B wants to know Girl A. He stands close to her and she is all giggly and smiling big, just as Boy A comes around the corner. Girl A now has a problem and Boy A feels like he's been cheated on.

Better idea!!!

Boy A says to Girl A, "I think your groovy and maybe we can be friends." Girl A says, "That's cool. Your groovy too. We can do that but I have other friends too."

Boy A says to Girl B, "Ya wanna try being friends and see if it works?" Girl B says, "Well, a...er...gee...who me?...Okey Dokey."

Now, Boy A now has two friends.
Girl A sees Boy A kiss Girl B and she says, "I think I'll try that."
Girl B kisses Boy A and Boy A is now a lucky man because he's got no commitment to either girl and there is no reason for anyone to get upset.

"Going together" or whatever it is called today is just a way to try to lock someone else into only seeing you. You are also only locking yourself into seeing them. Don't put the pressure on yourself. Wait until your looking for a wife to do that sort of thing. Otherwise it's just a pain in the axs.

Answer 3

well, this is typical juvenile behavior. It feels like important drama now, but in the scheme of things it is not much to worry over.

You are soon to be an adult and you need to learn to take the consequences of your behavior.. And a little more than a week is not a relationship. And I don't blame the girl for not wanting you back. You can't keep changing your mind.
This is part of growing up and maturing.

Your job is to get an education and become a responsible adult Girlfriends will come and go. Eventually you will find someone you want to commit to and live a good life together.

Sit back and let this storm pass.

Answer 4

Sounds like you made a rash decision on who you chose to date.. but you know in my experience of dating.. it takes time to really get to know someone. Sometimes you can tell if a girl is really sensitive about the way she feels towards you.. . the truth is she gave you a chance... you kind of blew it you know. If i was dumped because my so called date wanted to date someone else I don't know about the second chance.... or take the chance a second time.... mabey try to be friends with her first...see if she would accept that to start and if she says yes to that.. then work slowly.. but dude... sometimes it takes a mistake to see what went wrong.. just don't do that again until your sure of the person.

Answer 5

She sounds unforgiving, but it is pretty normal for a girl to react like that, especially if she feels second best. Why do you want her back? Do you HONESTLY want HER, or do you just want to "win". Please don't be offended, because I don't know you---I am just trying to raise some questions that may just be off the mark.
I think since it was just only a week, you should chalk it up to experience and forget her. If it had been longer, I would say work at trying to win her affections back. She is just afraid that since you cheated so early, you may just stray again. The next time, be more trustworthy, even if temptation is strong.

Answer 6

She gave it to you in writing, there is proof. She doesn't want you back. It's not worth the time or the energy. Move on and find someone better. Also if you aare going to see more than one girl, make sure they all know you are just dating casually. If you find someone you really like stick with her.

Answer 7

you did all you could do. you stood up and said i was wrong, then asked her back. the rest is up to her. if you push it, she'll push you away. it's great you thought she so special in the week you dated her. but if this doesn't work out, at least you didn't invest that much time into it! I hope you're not getting in over your head. good luck

Answer 8

Lick your wounds. With a name like "player," you probably will do this to yourself again.

It's not the end of the world. You can't make someone like you or even forgive you. You *can* make damn sure that you don't put yourself in this position again with the next woman you fall in love with.

Answer 9

dude it's not that hard you only dated her for a week for one thing so if you don't get her back don't sweat there are other fish in the see now if you really want to be with her your the only one in the world that knows how to do it because you know her what does she like to do to eat to go stuff like that think about what you loved about her and what she loved about you and then take that and multiply it by ten and do those things for her if ti's mean to be it's mean to to be you know what i mean
Alan Keys

Answer 10

Suck it up. chalk it up to experience and move on with your life. 99% of the time the grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. If you got a good woman then hang on to her.