What do you think?

Question

I've been mostly texting with this guy for over 6 months. He's shy, so shy that his friend had talk to me for him to get my number. After that it was just pure texting. We have hung out a few times and we get along good, he seems nervous at first but then he seems to get comfortable. I have asked him why he doesn't call and he says he's not a phone guy, that he answers when ppl call himsometimes. His friend has said that he likes me and that he doesnt even answer her calls, instead he texts her. I have asked him to call me and he has but only once or twice after I asked him to. I feel he has interest in me because his friend said he did, he texts me everyday, and he has bought me things. What I don't understand is why he doesn't call when I have asked him to and why he doesn't ask me to hang out more. I have called before but I was the only one doing it unless I asked him to, and I feel that he should step it up to ask me out more. I don't get him, he's a cool guy but im getting tired.

Answer 1

He's really shy. It's your move to get away or accept him for who he is.

Answer 2

girl it just how some guys are...some r definitely more shy then others...what u should do ..i think u should ask him how come he doesnt ask u to go out more and if u have to do all the calling maybe he's not worth it. but tell him how u feel about the whole him only texting u and not calling as much as u would like...

Answer 3

im not a phone person either only when it come to my boyfriends i am...but i think he does like you he just feels more comfortable texting you. What if you dont call him or text him for awhile what would happen then?

Answer 4

do you REALLY want to be with a guy that has such a phobia of talking on the phone/hanging out. thats a key in a relationship. DUMP HIM duh