Having girlfriend troubles... help please!?

Question

Hey guys, thanks for any help! Story:

met a girl at uni, and been seeing her for 6 months now.

We live 200 miles apart, so in holidays see each other rarely. After the Christmas Holidays she said to me that she "got used to being without me" which has been playing on my mind. We have talked but it still bugs me.

Then her ex boyfriend sent her a load of photos of them together and didnt tell me until i questioned her what was in the envelope when she was looking for a bank statement...

During the easter holidays i went to visit her, but after 2 days she told me to go home so she could have a "night out without me", and then dumped me when we got back to Uni, only to ask me to go out with her again, to which i said yes. Since then its been so hard... i feel like i am a nobody to her. She had to go home the other weekend so i drove the 200 miles, but not even a "thankyou" for it at the end =/

I love her so much, but these amongst other things are bugging me lots at the moment! Help!

Answer 1

A lot of times a few months apart can work miracles

Answer 2

i feel so sorry for you. you seem like a sweet person. she don't deserve you. your just too decent, loyal, loving and caring and she clearly doesn't appreciate that. and its never crossed her mind. she doesn't stop to think about you, your feelings and the lengths go go for her. i know its easier said then done, but i think your better with out her. you'd think after the first breakup , she would change, come to realization of what she did and treated you. but she obviously hasn't noticed or even cared enough. that's not a relationship. its selfish. I'm sure there some else out there for you, who will appreciate you.

Answer 3

Sorry but it sounds like she's cheating, I mean she actually said she wanted a "night without you", you only see her a couple of times a year so she's had plenty of nights without you, it sounds like she dumped you because of her ex and then something probably happened with them so then she wanted you back, it doesn't sound like she really loves you, try to get over her.

Answer 4

well my only advice that i can say is that she doesnt really "love" or like u the way u love her. u r more into her than she is into u. i believe when she asked u to get back with her u should have said no because she seems liek she is using u to say she has a boyfriend or so u can just treat u like crap(basically what she is already doing.)..yep so i think u should break it off with her before u get even more attached...

Answer 5

she's ungrateful and wants you only when theres nobody else around and she's lonely. dump her. if i had a guy that would do what you do AND trust me to enough to be in a long distance relationship, i would treat you like gold. girls would kill for you =)

Answer 6

Sounds like all you are to her is a convenince. You're being used. Time to move on. What you want she can or will not give.
Good luck.

Answer 7

IT LOOKS LIKE SHE ONLY CALLS YOU WHEN SHE NEEDS YOU. YOU SHOULD TALK TO HER AND SEE WHAT IS GOING ON. ASK HER WHAT DOES SHE WANT OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE IF SHE FEELS NOTHING THERE THIS IS NO POINT ON LIVING LIKE THIS.

Answer 8

Leave her. She's ungrateful and she's probably cheating on you anyway.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

leave her please. she is using you. use your head. there are other fish in the sea. she doesnt love you the way you love her, i can tell you thats the truth