So it's my senior year!! Prom and everything is supposed to be great! well for me it's JUST THE OPPOSITE it's been the most HORRIBLE TIME FOR ME!! I'm not even SURE i want to go anymore!!
My boyfriend of 2 years goes to a different school then me this is the story it's a tad bit long i apologize but i'm VERY UPSET!!
first was my prom MY PROM was May 18th. My friends and I all had plans to purchase tickets the week of April 16. They were on sale from the 16-20th of April. All my friend's and I agreed to purchase tickets April18th two days before tickets stopped selling. Well the day we were supposed to purchase tickets this one girl i am friends with lets call her "Anna" came up to me and told me that she had forgotten to tell me, my boyfriend, and this other girl lets call her "Tiffany" that everyone else had bought tickets. She told us that the limo was now full, that the table was full, and that there was no more room at there beach house they were renting.
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2007-04-26 08:23:58 · 31 answers · asked by pigs go oink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well again this was 2 days BEFORE prom tickets stopped selling. Most of the girls sitting at that table can't stand the girl "Tiffany" Well "Tiffany" went home crying and her mother called up EVERY SINGLE PERSON who had bought tickets and demanded that they allow her daughter to sit with them. That caused a HUGE DRAMA and huge problems. Another girl who is sitting at that table had A LOT of problems with this girl "Tiffany" and they tend to argue NON-STOP!!
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2007-04-26 08:25:22 · update #1
"Anna" & "Tiffany" are supposidly best friends but all I hear "Anna" say about "Tiffany" is negative things. She talks about how she can't stand Tiffany and how they are going to the same college and how she's so upset! She tells EVERYONE she hates Tiffany but yet...Tiffany & her are rooming together next year at college, majoring in the same things, and attempting to take all of the same classes together.
Well to avoid all the drama my boyfriend and I decided to attend just HIS PROM!
2007-04-26 08:26:47 · update #2
Now there is MORE drama because my boyfriend feels once is enough for prom! He says that prom is making both of us CRAZY and that all we do is argue over it! (which is true) He wants to save money, claims prom is "boring", doesn't want to go and is making me feel bad about it! He makes me feel like it's not important to him!!
and NOW to make things worse I have NOTHING to do prom weekend! My one friend says he has a beach house and we are welcome to come but it is an 8 hour drive away WHY would I drive 8 hours just to go to a beach house? Plus my boyfriend does not get along with my guy friend AT ALL!!
Not to mention my other friend is going with "Anna" to New York City and failed to invite me OR my boyfriend.
I feel really left out! I feel like the only person who isn't going to enjoy my prom weekend! I don't know what to do and in the US you can't rent a hotel until you are 21 and all my friend's that are over 21 won't rent for me!
2007-04-26 08:28:59 · update #3
Now I'm crying upset and just ready to return my d*mn dress!! I'm ready to just give up on prom! I went during my junior year!!
this is to much drama for me to deal with!!!
PLEASE HELP ANY SUGGESTION WOULD BE GREAT!
2007-04-26 08:29:50 · update #4
It's to late to purchase tickets for MY PROM so i really can't go with Tiffany it's either my boyfriend's prom or nobody's prom
2007-04-26 08:32:59 · update #5
what is your friggin question?
2007-04-26 08:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes life gets very complicated, especially when you're a teenager. I know you wanted everything to be perfect and go smoothly, but it didn't work out for you. At least you and your boyfriend have a prom to go to, so you're not missing out entirely. Try to have a good time with him, and forget the pettiness that "Anna" and "Tiffany" are displaying. Soon you'll be going off to college, and chances are you won't even see them anymore. You'll make a whole bunch of new friends that are more compatible and not in a clique. Go to your boyfriend's prom, look beautiful and have a great time. Good luck, dear. And don't let those petty girls spoil your fun.
2007-04-26 15:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what the question is, but here goes.........BEEN THERE DONE THAT.Let's say "Anna" is a stuck up snob and "Tiffany" is just looking for a friend that will pay her any attention.I am willing to bet that "Anna" probably does the same thing behind your back that she is doing behind "Tiffany's" back.I couldn't help but notice that you, your boyfriend and "Tiffany" are the only things that there are in common: you all were blown off by the "Anna".That leaves you, the peace keeper in the group.The one that doesnt tell one what the other is saying, so as not to hurt feelings.Try this: OPEN YOUR MOUTH, GIRL!!!!Say something to that heffer.Tell her to put up or shut up. Then, politely bow out of the "friendship", cut your losses and move on.You will be happier and better off.Oh, and have fun at his prom, that's what it's for!
2007-04-26 15:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Heather B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well I am not sure if there was a question in there or not, but here is my response. Sounds like Tiffany is a little spoiled. She is in high school, which means she's too old to be having her mom call and fix her problems.
It sounds as if you made the right decision about prom, your bf's will probably be alot less drama.
High school is one of the best times of your life, don't let a bunch of silly girls ruin it. Soon you will be out of school and joining the real world. Then the drama never stops...Good luck!
2007-04-26 15:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rosey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, drama is my name it follows me everywhere. I also had a fall out with friends couple nights before prom, boyfriend dumped me for a friend, was very depressed and didn't want to go to my prom. Anyways, ended up going to the prom anyways sat at a table with some new people. I had a really good time....... that after wards they invited me to a house party. I ended up meeting a very nice guy and alot of nice new friends. (Don't let a group of people bring you down from having a good time. Let them know you don't care about there drama and have yourself a wonderful time.)
2007-04-26 15:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by ang k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what exactly is your problem, all I got out of that entire story was that your prom plans (at your school) hit the fan, then you talk about some girls "Tiffany" and "Anna" who Anna claims to be friends with Tiffany and talks trash about her. Then you said it bugs you, and THEN you go onto say that you and your b/f got fed up with the whole drama scene and you two decided to attend his prom instead of yours.
**NOW...sorry if I am totally blind to what you're asking here. I am just not getting it.
2007-04-26 15:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys made a good choice to go to his prom yours will probly be drama filled. Just forget about them and enjoy your night with your man. I dont know exactly what you need help with but take my advice. highschool isnt the end of the world it only gets better after highschool your friends will come and go and youll meet new better people. Make it a point to have a good prom no matter what make it yours something you can look back on in a couple years and smile at. Good luck and have fun.
2007-04-26 15:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just needed to vent. You made the right decision as it was, without doubt, going to be a very adolescent evening and a total waste of a whole lot of money. Hope you have a good time at HIS prom. Too bad you have to miss your own, but sounds like you will have better memories of not going than you would have had OF going.
Also, sounds like your friends are very immature, so don't stay upset and don't hold onto that memory. You will, one day, have a good laugh about this. Your last year should be full of good memories and fun times. Avoid the rest.
2007-04-26 15:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by howdigethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i don't know what you're question is but i'll try and give some advice. first off relax! everyone thinks prom is the biggest deal ever and it's really not! i didn't even go to mine and i still don't regret it! you won't have any fun if you keep stressing yourself out! if you don't want to go to your prom, maybe you can find a spot to meet your friends after and then just hang out with them. and don't worry about "prom weekend" you'll figure out something to do or just hang w/ your friends that are around! and you'll still get the prom experience at your bf's prom and have none of the drama! and girls are like that, they'll be super nice to your face and talk mad smack behind your back, just try not to get involved. let them deal with it themselves or not deal with it if they don't want to. don't add stress and drama into your life by caring about what other people say about other people! just try and relax and before you know it prom will be here and gone and you'll have graduation and starting college to focus on!
2007-04-26 15:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too upset, you are just getting over the catty part of being a teenage girl..... consider yourself lucky, lots don't. Go to your boyfriend's prom, and have fun. Don't argue on that topic with your friends about 'Tiffany' and maybe just try and find new Friends, like maybe someone around the same thought level as you. Good luck!
2007-04-26 15:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by rain_galefer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you were foolish to do that.One day you will regret not having gone to your prom.
You ignore people like that and let them squabble among themselves and not get involved.Why should you miss your prom because of them? I would never have let that happen.
You and your boyfriend should have gone on your own and made your own plans for later.You could still have had a great time.
None of these girls are your friends anyway.Friends don't treat each other like that.They sound like a bunch of immature little girls.Let them be friends and be miserable together.
Please don't be so upset.They're not worth it.Put your chin up and go to your boyfriends prom and have a wonderful time.
This is your senior yr.so you'll be rid of them and their childish ways.Good luck for the future.
2007-04-26 15:39:03 · answer #11 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋