my ex boyfriend always calls me crying telling me that he had a very bad dream... he doesn't go into details when i ask him what the dreams was about... we stay on the phone only for a short time, he tells me he has to go... i just don't understand .. he calls then we won't talk for a bout 2 weeks then he calls again of the same situation... then he text to thank me for making him feel better.... ?????
2007-04-26 07:50:47 · 7 answers · asked by lala15 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sounds like he needs help. Since you are his "ex", you might not want to get involved. You should suggest that he should go and get some counselling. He may have mental health issues that you can't tell just by talking on the phone.
2007-04-26 07:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty immature. He's needy, doesn't want to make any commitments, but at the same time, it appears that he doesn't want to let go. You have to ask yourself what your feelings are. It seems as though you still have some interest in him, otherwise you wouldn't give him sympathy, counsel, or wonder why you haven't heard from him. So maybe it's a match, but you both don't realize it. Why not kiss and make up? It doesn't sound like a very functional relationship, but it should prevent your ex from having bad dreams, and you from worrying about him.
2007-04-26 15:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres more to this not alot of detail but if hes not calling for 2 weeks you need to do some investigating,and especially if you arent helping him and hes not giving info.It sounds to me hes a little guilty of something.
2007-04-26 14:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds unstable to me. Like he's trying to see how far he can string you along with this act, or is wanting to see your reaction, or for some other weird self-serving or unresolved reason. Strange at least. I don't think I'd stick around.
2007-04-26 14:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Red Ant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a very immature person to me=some people feel better when they have talked a bit with someone they know well
2007-04-26 14:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..sounds like he is in love with you and wants to make excuses just to talk to you. either that or its some dumb joke that he keeps doing..it is a weird situation though!
2007-04-26 14:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he just needs a sympathetic ear, so to speak.
2007-04-26 14:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by GDBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋