How can u make a relationship work and last a whole long time???

Answer 1

nothing lasts forever.. just make the most out of it and give each other love..who knows it might last long... but not forever

Answer 2

Having a failed marriage to my credit, I would probably be the last one to give you solid advice. I will tell you that I was with my husband for a very long time.Allthough it didn't work, I'm sure you can learn a few things from mistakes made,thus giving you the pitfalls to avoid...When trying to make your relationship work and stand the test of time.
1. Never go to bed angry with each other! Always try to sort out your disagreements before bed, so that you can start the next day fresh without grudges or carrying the fight over into day 2.Plus you will sleep better.
2. Always make a compromise.If you do not do anything else on this list.Always Compromise! Otherwise the relationship with turn into a dictatorship instead of a democracy over time.
3. Forgive and forget! (cheating not included in this statement) If something that is "forgiveable" happens... Express how hurt you were, get it out into the open, let both parties say how they feel until the issue is resolved and then let it go! There is nothing worse than having a disagreement later down the road and then having past resolved issues come up when they are not relevant to the current disagreement!.
4. Dont ever discount your partner's feelings! Even if you feel they are blowing things out of propertion! Just because it is no big deal to you,it could be a big deal to them.Always listen with an empathetic ear.
5. Dont ever get to "comfortable" with them.By this I mean... If you always assume they are going to be there and hold off on little things such as......going out, telling them how much they mean to you,etc.Never knowing what could happen tommorrow... you may never have a chance to.
6. Routine in life is always a good thing in a relationship.It provides a great foundation for a relationship.Its safe and comforting.But..... Dont get too stuck on a routine! Shake things up a bit! Try to go out a couple nights a week with your friends and other nights your partner! Keeping your own life is important.It maintains your sense of identity and individualism.So often people get SO wrapped up in the relationship they loose their sense of identity and forget what they want for themselves.
7. Dont ever yell at each other! When the argument gets heated, walk away!

Most of all... Value your partner and always remember what it is that makes them so special to you.Dont ever take a single day for granted and learn to roll with the punches when things go from bad to worse! Good Luck

Answer 3

Fun and Enjoyment

If your With a person that you have known for a long time you know their Personality.

The Key is try to find a Person that has the same favorites in music or movies or food as you this will keep the relationship entertaining .

Answer 4

Communicate, be best friends, be honest, be open, try your hardest to not take each other for granted, show appreciation for each other, be supportive but don't give up everything of yourselves, just hold each others hands in situations where you don't know what else to, remember that each of you has a heart that can be made to love completely but can also be irreparably broken.

Answer 5

Well, that is up to the both of you. It is important that you both connect and enjoy having similar interests. Always be honest with each other, support each other with decision making, respect each other. Communication is so important. Enjoy every moment together. Good luck.

Answer 6

You have got to keep things fresh and show them that you care. Also make spontaneous decisions.

Answer 7

start talking and never stop --- resolve problems not just argue about them negotiate a solution that keeps both -- if not happy then not unhappy --- keep falling in love

Answer 8

communication and being honest

Answer 9

be yourself,be honest and respect your other half

Answer 10

Good sex;)