my girlfriend's been out with really experienced guys before me. now i'm feeling inferior or concious i might not be good enough compared to the other guys. any advice? please? i don't wanna humiliate myself. i'm desperate.
2007-04-26 04:23:50 · 30 answers · asked by mercurial vapor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go slow ... Very slow ... It's not about the destination...its about the road getting there !
2007-04-26 04:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mate, you need to let your girlfriend know that your not that experienced. You could always say that the reason is that you are or have been waiting for the right girl to come long. If this is true then she will love you even more and wont care how good or bad you are. Communication is the key to all relationships.
2007-04-26 11:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Andy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Michelin Starred Meal, Chocolates and Flowers will work wonders.
You won't get. any sex but at least she'll smile a bit.... in my experience.
If all else fails self-humiliation can be good, as some girls find it quite endearing. Put your tongue between her toes whilst stroking her hair with your fingers and ask if her G spot is somewhere between the two ....
Or
Ring up those experienced guys and ask them what they did!
2007-04-26 11:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just please her the way that you know how. Don't worry about those other males because it will only make you feel worse, then you won't beable to please her really good because you will be too worried about her past experience. Just do what you know and if she likes it, then you have made an accomplishment. If she doesn't like it, maybe someone else will. There are plenty other females out there who dont even know how it feels to be pleased by a guy. You could be the first to blow her mind.
2007-04-26 11:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by **Sparkle** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you enough she wont think you're inferior of compare you at all. Talk to her and tell her your nervous and why, she can show you what she likes and what turns her on and viceversa. You wont humiliate yourself and remember more often than not girls like a man who's fairly confident in himself...so be confident enough to talk and take lead.
2007-04-30 11:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by princess*tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to develop a personal relationship with her. Find out what she likes to do and what she likes to talk about. See if she enjoys reading or paying attention to the news or sports. Take her shopping and see what she likes to look at and maybe eat a few nice meals with her and become her friend.
Then decide if she is the kind of person you want to get stuck with. If not...keep it in your pants.
2007-04-26 11:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off, just tell her, if you have been dating a while explain to her that your feeling conscious, it work out better then just trying out good things, that and if she does understand when you tell her, you really wont humiliate yourself
2007-04-26 11:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Keep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Really, just be yourself and don't try and force yourself to change. Your girlfriend is with you because she wants to be with YOU, not because she's expecting some sort of olympic sex champion.
Be natural, just let your instincts run. Don't forget she's no longer with these other guys so all their "experience" didn't get them very far.
2007-04-26 11:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Otter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly it doesnt really matter girls like just simple fingering i and kissing her neck and touching her breasts i mean its not that hard you dont want to do everything at once save some of the good stuff for later if anything she should love of like you no matter what
2007-04-26 11:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by bran0687 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i no what u mean - i chated to her
quite litrally said 'how do u like it' she only told me one thing and i soon learnt!
but practise has made perfect in her eyes!!
i fink what u do b4 sex is the most important thing
i enjoy teasing my gf it drives her mad to the point that shes begging me!
i suppose im more on about turning her on but the more antisipation she has the better it is for her!
u no its good when u watch her eyes roll back in there sockets! hehe
2007-04-26 11:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by mininaxys12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you two really care about each other to be fooling around you should really be talking to her!!! It'll be better for you both if you're open and honest with her.
2007-04-26 11:27:59 · answer #11 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋