Do you feel uncomfortable to tell someones when their clothing is open?

Question

Last summer I had a cute sheer blouse on (and a bra underneath) and noticed a man looking at me with this big cheesy smile on his face and he said good morning very loudly as I was going into the main office at my son's school to take care of some business matters. A lady in the office told me about my blouse and I noticed that one of my boobs were showing. I mentioned to the lady in the office about the man outside and she said that he enjoyed seeing my sunshine rays.

Have you experienced telling someone that their zipper is open or some other part of their clothing is exposed to the entire public or do you leave it alone?

Tell me about your experiences.

Answer 1

A friend of mine told me a great story. She's a teacher, and one afternoon, a girl was motioning to her subtly. My friend was confused, looking all over the place, but the student kept pointing and trying to make gestures with her eyes. Finally, my friend asked, "What, what is it?" and the student said, "teacher, your zipper is open." My friend was so embarrassed that she hadn't picked up on the signals, so she joked "Why were you looking at my crotch?" Given that it was an ESL class, she then had to answer the question, "But teacher, what is a crotch?"

Personally, I don't mind telling people, but if it's someone I don't know, it's particularly awkward. Especially if it's a man with his fly undone - how do you explain how you noticed that, anyway?

Answer 2

Oh i have had many experiences and i usually tell the person in the nicest way possible because i would always like someone to tell me if it happened to me.

Once i was driving with my father (who was visiting from abroad) and he was wearing a summer shorts and shirt and during the drive, while chatting, i glanced at him and i noticed that the seam from his front zipper downwards had ripped and as i was not so accustomed to him, i contemplated how i should or if i should tell him. I finally decided that i will tell him an he was very glad that i drew it to his attention since he was unaware his pants had busted.

Answer 3

Back when I worked in the computer industry, I had to tell one of the men on my staff his fly was open. The problem is, I'm such a notorious prankster he didn't believe me! One of the database guys walked by a few minutes later and told him as well. THEN he believed and promptly zipped up again.

Personally, I always tell someone. I think it is cruel to let someone stagger around the US missing a vital part of their clothing or having something exposed. Well, unless you're at a fetish club, of course!

~Morg~

Answer 4

I've never personally had anything hang out, but in the movie Roll Bounce, Charlie Murphy tells Bow Wow that he has "a little fruit hanging out of the loom."

Answer 5

it incredibly is a not common one, yet I even have had it happen to me, not my boobs falling out yet hers. whilst she approached the nutrition table, I kinda walked up in the back of her and started speaking to her, properly after somewhat way interior the verbal substitute. I with courtesy reported to her , "that her boobs looked as though it might unlike there new magnificent", ..She blushed reported "Oh , i'm sorry i did not comprehend it" . I provided her considered one of my tee shirts, and all went alongside ok for something of the evening. She gave the impression to be in simple terms as embarrassed as i grew to become into, in spite of the shown fact that i think of she grew to become into greater embarrassed that she grew to become into caught interior the act, with the objective to communicate. I even have found out over the years that till you talk up issues like this one and comparable circumstances won't bypass away till you're making human beings conscious of them. particularly situations the guy with the unusual habit is in simple terms finding for interest, no rely if or not that's from the adult men or the guy addressing the project. in simple terms you would be wanting to be courteous and alluring with the guy so which you do not look offensive in the direction of them, ( even it no rely if it incredibly is offending you). And constantly say what bothers you no rely who's around or it incredibly is, rather on your very own residence. Sorry your urge for nutrition grew to become into ruined, perhaps next time she will have the skill to come returned dressed greater helpful.

Answer 6

I think its funny to tell some one that it happens to every one i would rather someone say something than not say anything but what i normally do if its a guy just tell them flat out hey dude we dont want to see that put it away. But if its a girl we got a diffrent story. you have to approuch this in a totaly diff way you have to say something like i really wasnt trying to look and i wasnt going to say anything but i couldnt let you walk around like that all day buuuuuuuuutttttt your boob is showing

Answer 7

Not at all. I tell them and I hope they would tell me. Btw,, you might want to be a little more discreet when going to your son's school. A sheer blouse? Didn't have a flesh tone cami to wear under it?

Answer 8

If it's a woman I don't feel uncomfortable at all. We women should look out for one another. If a man has something open I just quietly tell them so no one else can hear.

Answer 9

It's kinda difficult at church (not nose hairsand boogers) but
clothing undone on men or women and they
reply why were you looking there!
I say it was good intentions or trying to do the right thing but I wanna say:

NEXT TIME I'LL LET YOU R BUTT HANG OUT!

Answer 10

I'm a guy and whenever someone points out that my fly is down I thank them for looking. Generally a good way to make an awkward situation better.