2007-04-26 01:38:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of my female friends say they've thought about marriage since they were little girls. Planning and such. Then most my guy friends have said is not till were about 27. So we don't mind marriage, just don't think about it nearly as indepth.
2007-04-26 01:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by fdneo_83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. They do not. For most men, marriage means giving up certain freedoms. Women are looking for security and stability while men mainly want to have a good time. If you've ever wondered why the traditional wedding song is the same as that of a funeral procession (only quicker), it is because part of the man dies when he gets married. That's why a lot of old men are pushovers. They've been married too long.
2007-04-26 01:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by The Pale Rider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy...and the woman too. I come from a house where my folks are still best friends after 25 years, and they are renewing their vows this summer, so I have seen marriage successfully undertaken. My boyfriend comes from a divorced home, and so he has seen what not to do, and he has a real desire to create a stable marriage and family. But I know some folks who really have no desire to get married, men and women, and if that works for them, that's great! You just have to figure out what's right for you and not give into anyone pressuring you about it either way. Because marriage is a really big commitment, and both people need to be equally prepared for what might come in it.
2007-04-26 03:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Constellation 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never planned to get married. I was totally and completely disinterested in it from the time I was a kid. Frankly, I only married because he proposed 6 times, and I figured he was really serious about the whole thing. (Yeah, I was young and stupid..it happens).
I can't tell you how many men proposed to me, over and over. I couldn't figure it out.
Honestly, I think in both genders there is the same drive to find that one person, and make them yours. Some of us have that drive strongly. Others, not at all.
2007-04-26 01:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who have the means marry most often. Men who can't afford to marry make use of women instead.
2007-04-26 01:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that men dream about weddings and wives in their childhood and adolescence the way that girls do. I do, however, believe that when they mature that they tire of dating and spending money and would rather settle down and have someone take care of them. I think that there is plenty of evidence that men want to be married, because men who divorce or become widowers actually tend to remarry very quickly. So, they must like it!
2007-04-26 01:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by lulu muffin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Men think with there minds in a relationship and woman with there hearts. For a heart only love matters, with a mind its all the technicalities that matter, witch is both needed in a relationship.
2007-04-26 01:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by г๏zเ -----x.♡.x----- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for my son...22 year college male...I know he very much wants to be married someday.
2007-04-26 01:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think so bcuz men want to be free from the yellin and the "talks" dat we give them. take it from a gurl!!!! men says its lyke being on lock down! but we as women have to have a big ring on their finger to show off!!!
2007-04-26 01:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tonio's babygurh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different. not all woman want to be married and not all men want to stay single
2007-04-26 01:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by AMS 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋