I'm a guy who chooses not to be with anyone because I don't want to be committed...knowing that I would probably get bored and look elsewhere. So what I want to know is what you (girls) think you can do to keep your boyfriends/husbands "interested" and faithful.
2007-04-26 01:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think when a man cheats he is definitely bored with his relationship. I have a brother that is the same way and this is what i have observed through out the years. When he would cheat he would cheat with someone who did the things his gf wouldn't do. Weather it was a different position or doing it some where spontaneous! His excuse was he was bored. I think if you want a relationship to work you have to keep the line of communication open. Always talk about whats on your mind or talk to your gf about how and what you can do to spice up your relationship. Every relationship takes work and it takes time to work out the kinks. If you give up that easily on a relationship and your eyes wonder all the time, you will find yourself A. alone or B. going through relationships left and right. I think if your thinking about cheating on some one you are with the relationship is pretty much over. Unless you do something to make it right and not let it happen. When I used to think about cheating on my ex husband ( GO FIGURE) i never did it because i thought about how much i would hurt him. I also thought about it the other way around how would i feel if he cheated on me.
2007-04-26 01:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by VeNnY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me from your description that he is interested in other girls. He IS chatting with them, and having fun with them. He may have found something in you he doesn't like, or he might have a secret he is afraid to tell you about but he is ok to tell a total stranger about. Why don't you create a fictitios person on facebook. A girl about your age perhaps, and friend him. Then have a conversation with him there. See if he will reveal some secrets to you that he would never tell you about. You have to be strong if you are going to do this though, as you may learn things you don't want to hear. On the other hand, it might be a lot of fun too. Worth a try. Don't get too choked up if it doesn't work out with him. You will find another guy easily anyways. Billions of guys out there. Don't sweat it.
2016-05-19 02:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by lorrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to make absolutely certain your boyfriend doesn't cheat on you. Being faithful is a personal decision, and has nothing to do with the other person. Quite frankly, I see it as a lack of personal integrity on the part of the cheater, especially the type who say they want an "exclusive relationship"..but actually mean they want the other one to not see anyone, while they do what they want.
2007-04-26 01:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not JUST up to the girl to keep the man interested. When you have commited to someone both people have to keep the relationship alive. Like the last person said... TRUST is a major component in this situation, also RESPECT for that person.
2007-04-26 01:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can worship & kiss the ground they walk on and yet some still go out and cheat.You can trust them and yet cause they now that you trust them they will still cheat "Oh she would never believe that i would cheat on her cause she trusts me"And he trusts you enough to know that you will never question him about cheating cause he knows that you trust him.which is a crock of shitt. You can trust that he will cheat or at least try to .Don't get me wrong there are some that won't cheat but not many do Regardless of how satified you think they are.
2007-04-26 02:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just trust him, If he cheats on you its his fault, no matter what! if he is not happy with something you did, he can talk to you or leave you, there is no excuse for cheating.
Honor and respect him and be trust worthy your self.
2007-04-26 01:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by г๏zเ -----x.♡.x----- 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can never be too sure. A lot of married men cheat.
2007-04-26 01:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is faithful, and i trust him 100%. it is something called love and commitment which keeps us together
2007-04-26 01:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't stay commited, don't let the realationship get dat far.
2007-04-26 01:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its definately not your fault if he cheats on you..its his he just didnt see all you have to offer and he's not the one
2007-04-26 01:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋