Im in my first year at university and living at home. I really enjoy socialising so I go out with my friends quite a lot. 3 times a week or so usually. My dad gets really angry and doesn't realise that going out is a normal part of uni life. My mum is ok with me going out but sometimes I think my dad would prefer if I didn't go out at all and just stayed at home studying. I think its a cultural thing. In the country he was brought up it was something bad to go out, and in his home country people at uni don't see it as a social experience but a place to study full stop. How can I convince him? Are there any other people in my situation?
2007-04-26 00:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by rock o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should sit down with your father and discuss the matter (it shows that you're trying to behave like an adult). Let him know that you are taking you classes seriously (it helps if you have a report card showing some good grades to support this). Explain to him that school can be stressful, so you enjoy spending some time with friends outside of school to help relax and refocus on your school work. Also, make a deal with him that if your grades should start slipping, then you will cut back on your going out until you can get your grades back up. He should respect the fact that you are taking school seriously. It also reassures him that you will continue to do your very best (if you don't then you won't be able to go out anymore).
2007-04-26 01:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by princess_dnb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you should know how to balance your studies and your vices or hanging out mostly with your friends.. you didn't went or study to a university just to hang out with your friends 3 times a week.. if i was your dad i will not support ur studies.. you'll just a pain in his ***...
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2016-11-27 22:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move into the dorm, or just stay home
dad is right
studying is MUCH more important
2007-04-26 00:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them proper about it.ur dad is also right.
2007-04-26 01:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by navin t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋