i am interested! what else is there i should and can do?!?

Question

What else is there that i can do?
sometimes we talk online, sometimes we don't. we knew each other through work. sometimes i think he wants to talk to me, but sometimes i also get the feeling that he's not interested. i'm afraid to keep on talking to him in case he thinks i'm annoying and he won't talk to me anymore. we went out before in a group, and he didn't talk very much to me. but he seemed like he wanted me to go to the movie and seemed panicky when i said i might not be free. he tells ideas that he has and always asks if i'm ok, and eats with me during lunch breaks. he tells me about his everyday life, and shares with me little details that he otherwise wouldn't bother about. he once talked to me about some things till he became all teared up. i really like this boy, but i don't know what else i can do to ruin this friendship? what else is there i should do? i don't know whether he likes me back.

he doesn't call, he doesn't text me at all. i've known him for about 6 months now. do u think i am overthinking it? that this is after all just a friendship?

i meant to say NOT ruin the friendship i have with him by telling him i like him and risking him not having the same feelings

Answer 1

I would back off and see if he comes to you. First, before you do that, tell him you like him and you thinks its awesome to have him in your life. Then, back off. If he cares to talk to you, he will initiate it. Timing is everything and perhaps the timing is bad for him. Hard to tell. Good luck.

Answer 2

Try not to call him or text him first, wait till he calls u first. That way, he won't think that ur annoying him and getting to attached to him.
If u really like him and that u've been friends for 6 months, then u should talk to him and tell him how u feel about him. Tell him if he wants to move to the next level of ur relationship being friends or something else, at least u know where to stand. If u don't want to tell him how u feel, then don't get attached with him, let him be the one to get attached to u.

The reason why he talks about his everyday life to u is because he wants to share it with u and that maybe he trusts u. I really think he does have feelings for u but is to shy about it because he might think that ur not interested in him. Good luck!

Answer 3

are you wanting to 'ruin ' this relationship? that's what you typed. Sounds like he likes you, spends time talking with you about all kinds of things...but sounds like he's not sure if you like him as you put him off when he asks you out. Try being more friendly*(if you're wanting a relationship with him) if you really want to ruin the relationship......Ignore his every attempt to talk to you.
what is it you want? to make it or break it with this guy?

Answer 4

Your actions are why lots of guys don't want a girlfriend. Why do you expect the guy to be your full-time entertainment unit? He does have his own life, you know? Why can't you get one, too?

I say back the hell up off the guy and let him breathe. You're smothering the crap out of him.

Answer 5

By the sound of things, he is not ready to be in a relationship. Be his friend, give him some space, and hey, you never know what might happen.

Answer 6

if his behaviour is slightly odd, he may be feeling similar things to what you are. i hate to generalise, but you girls do tend to think your signals are obvious to everyone (or put another way, expect boys to read your mind...?) ....why not just put cards on the table and be open and honest? if he isn't interested you can at least relax with him and move on with love interests.

Answer 7

chikkk... if u like him that muchh ask him out if he says no thenn u can still b frends if he says yes then congrats