my boyfriend lives in london
i go up there and he comes down here quite often.
i love him loads n means alot to me
then i hear stuff like hes so far away he cud b doing anything right now
is london 2 far or can my fairytale be a bit more far far away?
saff <3
2007-04-26 00:33:45 · 15 answers · asked by princezz_saff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don’t worry about the distance, he could be down the road, and still cheat if he’s the type to cheat. The main thing to consider is - how well do you know him, and what he wants from the relationship? You could ask the same thing of yourself, but I’ll trust you really want to be with HIM, and not some stereotypical brit or Adonis.
There are people who are quite comfortable with that much distance between them and their loved ones, and it doesn’t weaken their affections, or cause them to stray. Most people however aren’t like that, so you have to find out what kind of person he is by intimate investigation.
When you do get together with him, if all you do is have a good time shagging etc., then you’re not doing yourself justice. If you really want this, you have to put WORK in, with the fun. Are you both making long term plans with each other?
Relationships won’t work just because we want them to. Compatibility is the most important thing that decides if it works or fails. It’s FAR more important than Love, or Trust, despite what others tell you.
2007-04-26 01:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Prince_of_Pense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you - The Falklands?
My husband travels three hours in the morning and three hours back at night - which is quite far. I suppose though that with all that travelling he is too tired to do anything ontoward in between!
However - my point is - nowhere in UK is VERY far away from anything else really is it? You can coast to coast in five hours!!
But i would say that it is not distance that is the probelm here - it's trust and faith in each other.
Just make sure that he doesn't find in London something he can't find at home with you. And when he does get to see you - give him such welcome that he might just thinking about either taking you with him or looking a bit closer to home for work!
Best of luck - just enjoy it without listening to people who just wind you up to see you go.
2007-04-26 07:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by isobellistowel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can make your relationship works as long as you believe in it. Dont listen to stuff like that. Only trust what your heart telling you.
You should believe your bf just like you believe yourself. If you did not do anything to harm this relationship, why would he?
I can tell you this because I am in a long distance relationship myself. I am from South East Asia and my fiance is from Sweden. We have been together for almost 3 years now, meeting here and there every 5 months... and we are getting married end of this year.
So, just believe! It can work....
2007-04-26 07:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nitangi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i have ever gotten from someone --->
OTHER PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS TRY AN MIX IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND COMPLICATE IT...
Your relationship doesnt include other people.. its just you and him at the end of the day..
So f#ck what everybody else says...
You two are together now, so concentrate on making it the best relationship you will ever have, rather than wasting energy on insecurities other people inflicted..
BY the way, did you have dubits before other people said what they did?
2007-04-26 08:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by P_GGG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends on the both of you. Do you want it to work out? It takes a lot of work and a lot of trust. Personally, I married my long-distance love and we are very happy.
So the short answer, is yes, it can work. But, only if you both want it to and are both willing to put in the time and effort.
Good luck to you both! Be happy!
2007-04-26 07:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sr. Mary Holywater 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get that sore puss off your face first off.
It might work and it might not. At this point we don't know. We here at Yahoo are not fortune tellers. Get an eight ball. You're just as likely to take that advice.
2007-04-26 07:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's soppose to happen it will, let it happen and enjoy it, dont pay attention to what others say. Besides you know the real answer is inside in your heart. Trust you own judgements and trust you gutt feelings, thats where your answer is.
2007-04-26 07:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by ChristiCarlClub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "we"? Is he concerned about making it work? It takes 2 to tango, as the saying goes. If he's not interested, you're wasting your time and energy.
2007-04-26 07:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never too far... i have been with my gf for 5 years.. she lives in china i live in US... serious... i visit her twice a year... i call her every day on the phone... sometimes she doesnt have faith... but i persuade her that one day we can be together... sometimes love holds people together even if they are on the other side of the planet...
worse case... at least you can remember the good times
2007-04-26 07:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Random Friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No long distance relationship has ever worked for me but each for there own. If it does work out its obviously true love...
2007-04-26 07:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋