I am sad.I have this fren who use to be my ex.r.when we were together, we are so close.actually our relationship didn't survive long.3 months.we broke out cos i found out tt we are not tt suitable after all.den we demoted to frens.but he act as if we are still tger.he knows the relationship i am having.which i treasure dearly.everytime he ask me out i will have to lie to my bf just to meet him because i am afraid he will not like it.tried before and he really is mad.most of the time he wants to meet me out, say 8 out of 10 times i rejected him.because i am caught with my work partly i wanted to accompany my current bf more.he would throw a fuss, say " ok, we shall end our frenship here and now." be it over phone, sms , msn?whatever channel of communication, you name it.than after a few days he will pretend as if all his harshful words didnt come out from his mouth at all.?!?i sms his fren greeting sms he sound as if i am a slug trying to 'snatch' his fren.omg.pls give advise.=(
2007-04-25 23:18:23 · 5 answers · asked by Shalyn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a backbone girl. Just tell him that you are seeing someone else, and out of respect for your boyfriend you will not be going anywhere with him again. If that doesn't work, tell your boyfriend to tell him to stay away from you.
2007-04-25 23:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, I feel that your ex is too childish. If both of you agree that you can't be together, he shouldn't act in that manner. I always believe that if a couple can't be together, at least give my blessing to my ex and hope all the best for her. I feel that you have to tell your ex straight in the face and if he threatened to end your friendship, I feel that it is better to end the friendship rather than let your current bf mistook that you are two timer. It is not an easy decision. Alternatively, bring along your current bf when you need to see your ex and this could give a strong signal to him. Hope tour ex can get the signal you are trying to give
2007-04-26 02:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not friend. End it once and for all. Move on to meet more charming frends.
2007-04-25 23:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by hsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any chance of having that in english?? with punctuation??
2007-04-25 23:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by superloopy70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set him up with one of your "easy" friends so he'll forget all about you.
2007-04-25 23:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kinetic Nebula 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋