2007-04-25 21:57:20 · 9 answers · asked by 505 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how YOU feel!
2007-04-25 22:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how old are you. If you're in highschool, the odds are he is probably mistaking lust for love, and will get over it. If you're out in the "real world", or even in school and you think he really does love you, it depends entirely on how you feel? Don't lead him on though. If you want to try it out, go for it...but let him know that you truly aren't sure how you feel. If you want him just as a friend, and you think you can move past this, you're truly an awesome girl(or guy). Most girls would freak out. It takes a real champion not to run in the other direction. But regardless of what you do, make sure he knows exactly how you feel. There's nothing worse then thinking a girl loves you, only to make an *** of yourself when you find out otherwise.
Good luck
2007-04-26 05:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain aloof and skeptical, recognizing that any guy can use those words on you. If you think you might be attracted to him, then give him just a little attention at a time, being cautious not to give him everything too soon. You have to reel him in, a little at a time, then let him out a bit, then reel him in a bit more, making sure he's right for you first before you become too close. Be very patient, allowing lots of time for a relationship to develop, never appearing to be in any hurry. If you appear to be in too much of a hurry, he may just use you. Don't allow that to happen. Never give anything away for free; make him work hard even for a little attention or affection from you. If you and him are meant to be, he will patiently stick things out and prove to you that he's worth it. If he isn't sincere, but only after quick pleasure, he'll get bored with you and move on to other girls before you allow him to break your heart. That isn't a bad thing. Start the relationship with small things - writing or texting, talking in person, and on the phone to help you get to know each other better. Keep asking yourself if this man is good enough for you: Is he able to work and support himself, or does he depend on others too much? Does he work hard and put everything he can into what he's doing? Is he intelligent? Does he treat you with respect? Does he exhibit maturity? Does he have a career path in mind? Is he planning a solid future for himself and a wife? Does he want children someday? These are all things that you should consider while you are getting to know him. If he fails to meet any of your expectations in what your man should be like, then it's time to move on and not waste your time or his.
2007-04-26 05:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by zythman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the same, then say so. If you don't, laugh lightly and tell him you love cake (or any other number of sugary confections). lol.
2007-04-26 05:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem? Do you think that we can read your mind? Tell the story, if you want reasonable answers.
2007-04-26 05:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY YOU HAVE billion of doubts and questions how can you convey it with just one question with no explanation more info required
2007-04-26 05:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by JASZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reciprocate his love if you feel the same.
2007-04-26 05:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and be happy! If you feel the same.
2007-04-26 05:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you also love him say so .
2007-04-26 05:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by vnbmuliyala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋