ei guys can you help me? i need to know how i can make my ex BF,regret hurting me.
it like this, he is my office mate , he is my first bf. weve been togther for 4 months only. i was STUPID to be intimate with him.. though we didnt had sex. i hope you know what i mean..
anyway, i found out that he is courting 2 girls, also with the same company but different branch. Unfortunetly I was assigned to move here (in teh branch where he is assigned ) last week. and it hurts me so much to know what he’s been doing..
nobody knows we’ve had a relationship.. but i still dont know how i can make him regret everything and how i can move on knowing that i now stay in his in his teritory.. i just feel helpless. any suggestions?
i dont want people here to know he is my ex because i was stupi to be intimate with him..
2007-04-25 21:09:14 · 17 answers · asked by jazzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you bother with such a person? What would be stupid is giving anymore time and energy to this guy. The best way to move on is to keep on dating others and enjoy yourself. The more energy you give this the more he wins. Love yourself, obviously you deserve better than him.
Good luck.
2007-04-25 21:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid. Getting even with him won't do you any good coz you only hurt yourself more if you still love him by doing so and you only disgust him. That kind of guy does not deserve your time and effort. Get a life. Forget about him and move on. There's too many fishes in the ocean that you can choose. Better than him. At least, you know his character before you really are committed to him.
2007-04-25 21:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by julkritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what I had a year relationship, and it was my first boyfriend and he was the first person I was with, and now three years later, he's still the only one I've ever been with. I used to be really hurt and wish I could be there when he regretted chaeting on me, but yesterday, after 2 and a half years of not speaking with him, he sent me an email on myspace telling me he felt sorry for all the hurt and pain he caused, and I was so surprised, I felt like I could finally stop feeling ill towards him...anyways I started talking to this guy at work since I'm single, we just hung out a few times, and all we did was kiss, and the thing is afetr each time we went out, we didn't talk and then we would go out again,it was like a circle, he never even called me, I feel like he used me to hang out with as a last resort when he was bored...so now I don't talk to him, if he speaks I'll say hi buy that's it, do like me...look good at work...haha that'll make him jealouse...and when he wants you really bad tell him no, you have plans, or better yet, tell him you'll call and don't,he missed out on a great person...good luck
2007-04-25 21:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by **Keisha 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've never found revenge to work. But if you must;
Get dressed up really hot for the office, I don't mean skimpy, but heels pencil skirt nice top (look sexy without being overly so). Get all the girls in the office to comment on how good you look. Then get the hottest guy you know to pick you up for lunch or dinner.
Make sure you say goodbye to your ex on the way out.
2007-04-25 21:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by ktrna69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and move on together with your life. He is an EX for a cause correct. The satisfactory revenge is bettering your self. Go to college, endeavor, learn a booklet, go do something that you and him certainly not did. That is the exceptional approach to get again at anybody!
2016-08-11 05:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - we all make mistakes and the trick is to learn from them - so he's a mistake, you made it, you won't get caught like that again. That's his purpose in your life, he's served it so he doesn't matter any more.
Then you work through the hurt - it just takes time and a determination to get over it - everytime you think of kim, feel sorry for him then think about something else - he's not worth your time and who cares what he feels...............
Get on with your life and why on earth would you care whether or not he regrets leaving you?
2007-04-25 21:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that if you try to do anything, it is only going to cause problems in the future. Although you may want to just avoid doing so. Just like one of the other girls said, look good. Step up your game, be happy and just forget that it even happened. Him seeing you happy will be enough to aggravate him. Hope that is understandable.
2007-04-25 21:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by NewlyMarried&LovingIt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would not make waves at work. You may very well regret it. What goes around, comes around. He will surely get his.
Just act as if you don't even remember him being with you. If it comes out that you had seen him, just say something like, "I had to break up with him, I just wasn't satisfied." If they ask "satisfied with what?", just say, "Well, you know." and drop the subject. It will make him look like a bad lover, and you haven't even been to bed with him!!!
2007-04-25 21:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, move on. Don't think of him. He doesn't deserve you. Live your own life, meet people, smile, have fun and do what you like. Your happiness is the most important.
2007-04-25 21:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Magda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the first sentance in this, and i have a answer for you. we learn from everything we do in life are past exp. are present....they help us to become the person we are. 'vengence is mine sayeth the lord" try to forgive him, i know sounds like no-way....but if you keep this inside you with out the forgiving your heart will be blackened by it. be better then he is.
2007-04-25 21:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋