2007-04-25 17:24:14 · 17 answers · asked by Beaujock 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
This is a non-issue, I think most woman cheat their husband/bf and most man rape woman in occupied countries. So what is the issue?
2007-04-25 21:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 7⤋
i resent the answer that most of us cheat.....ive been a military wife for 6 years.....and ive known hundreds of other wives, and i only know of about 3 that have cheated, as a matter of fact being stationed in japan the last 3 years i know of way more enlisted husbands that have went off base and cheated with japanese girls while their wives were home with the kids than i do wives that have cheated during a year alone. so if 3 out of 200 or so is the majority then the first answerer is correct......i personally am too busy taking care of the house and kids to think about sex while my husband is gone.
2007-04-25 17:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by CRmac 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Going without sex is easy... going without seeing his face, getting a hug, snuggling on the sofa, and then having the kids ask when is daddy coming home or why did daddy have to leave again.... that's the hard part. But, that's what we signed up for when we married them.
Bad marriages are bad marriages, military or not. A deployment either brings a bad marriage to an end or makes a good marriage even better.
2007-04-25 21:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by usafbrat64 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great answer, usafbrat. It is easy to go without sex, for a year, and longer. When he deploys, I kind of switch that desire off. Dont even want it anymore. My focus switches to HIM and giving him what he needs. Care packages, letters, and staying glued to the computer so that when he logs on, I am THERE (havent missed a log in through 2 deployments)!! I agree with usafbrat that I miss the hugs and snuggles WAY more than sex. And we are one of the good marriages that has a closer and stronger relationship at the end of the deployment than we had at the beginning.
So, yeah, to answer your question, it IS easy.
2007-04-26 01:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, it is you to the wife and girlfriend. I truly believe that most are alright with out their husbands and boyfriends. If the relationship was on solid ground to begin with, it will stay that way. Don't let a few rotten apples spoil it for the whole bushel.
It is never easy for anyone when their loved one is in the military serving overseas, Even worse when they are in a war zone. Stop generalizing. Don't spread rumors.
2007-04-25 18:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by whitehairblueeyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard mostly in the beginning when u are adjusting to the change....after a while u end up keeping yourself busy working or going to school taking care of the kids and stuff...and then u can actually teach yourself to block those thoughts out...their is always masterbation lol and hey not everyone cheats...only losers cheat..i am faithful to my soldier and i am just fine with waiting for sex until he comes home..its really the last thing on my mind...i am worried about him and missing my hubby and going to school for hairdressing, holding down the fort and taking care of our wonderful 3 year old little girl
2007-04-25 19:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by $$$$$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't found it overly difficult, while yes I miss having sex, that's not the most important part of the relationship. I don't want anyone but my husband, and like a friend of mine said when we were discussing it (her husband is deployed as well), we went without it before, so what's the big deal now? Now if you're looking for permission to cheat or want someone to tell you that it's ok that you have, I'm not going to give you that. It's never ok to cheat.
2007-04-25 18:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by Hillary J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine for me... I love my husband, and I only want to have sex with him. He could be gone longer then a year, and I would still be faithful. I love how everyone thinks that military wives are unfaithful... really its more women who married their husbands before they were in the military that cheat more.
2007-04-25 17:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I admire military spouses that stay faithful, there are some that don't but that is a choice they make. I don't like the sneaky people that try to befreind a spouse so they can try to take advantage.
2007-04-26 06:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure should be if they really love their husband/boyfriend, and made a vow . All women and girlfriend's are not cheaters. Besides love and or marriage is not all about sex any way.
2007-04-25 17:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. yes its easy b/c sex is just sex and he is worth it. No because i want sex and he isnt here but like i said he is worth the wait
2007-04-25 17:36:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋