me and this guy have been getting to know each other better in the past 3 weeks and are getting pretty close. i can tell he likes me a lot but in the past 2 days he hasn't waited for me after class as much and hasn't called me as much. he is supposed to be really busy this week though because of orchestra contests during school, rehearsals every day after school, and a spring trip the whole weekend. is he losing interest in me or am i just freaking out? also, how do i make him keep liking me and stuff? i'm afraid that after this weekend when i don't see him for like 4 days, and when he gets back... that he won't like me anymore.
2007-04-25 14:34:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a book called the 5 love languages by Gary Chapman...
People perceive love in five different languages; "Acts of service", "words of affirmation", "quality time", "physical touch" and "gifts"
get to know him and find out how he perceives love and speak his "language".
People often show love the way they perceive love.
2007-04-25 14:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by jason s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean he had the AUDACITY to not wait for you after class as much? Who does he think he is? As good as you? Does he actually think that he is entitled to a life of his own, and not be totally consumed with love?
Sheesh!!
Grow up already. You two are children in school, not adults married to one another. Even married people allow each other to have interests and to BREATHE.
You can't 'make' someone like you. And why would you want to? Just be the most interesting person you can be - and that means you have to have other interests other than boys. I know, I know - your hormones are acting up. Well you're just going to have to tough it out. People have been doing that since the world began.
2007-04-25 21:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun if i were you i wouldn't worry about it too much. Guys usually live their lives no matter what relationship they are in, and rarely change their whole world for just 1 girl...especially if the total getting to know you phase is only 3 weeks. So if I were you i would just sit back and live your life, have fun with your friends, and let him be the one to apologize for not being as attentive due to whatever it is. you dont want to look desperate by calling him all the time and showing up at all of his activities.
2007-04-25 21:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sarra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just stay the same. If he liked you before then he'll still like you. He's probrably just stressed out a lot lately Because of orchestra. When he gets back, remind him of how good of a person you are and welcome him back to you with a hug and some nice and supportive statements and a few questions showing that you are interested in his life. You shouldnt stress over changing for him. If he liked you before he wouldnt just stop. I hope things go well.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-25 21:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by MizzQ-T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to relax. Try not to think too much, in the meantime while hes gone, find a hobby to do, read, tv, sports, draw, whatever, to help keep your mind off your situation. I can tell that sometimes your world feels like it revolves around him and you shouldn't let that happen. Just keep your cool and I'm sure he still likes you. Good luck!
2007-04-25 21:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rick james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will still like you no matter what if you could tell he does like you a lot just give him time and when he gets back he will want to see you all the time
2007-04-25 21:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show if that you like him. You can exepect him to chase you unless you show intrest. Another possblitiy is that he is trying to play hard to get. I cant tell but i am saying is that you should show intrest,
good luck :)
2007-04-25 21:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just sounds like he's busy with school...since you haven't been talking to him for that long...don't let him know how much you like him yet..it might chase him away..after he gets back...just continue as u usually would..and u can't MAKE someone like you..it just happens so..just be yourself..if gets "un intereseted" then its his loss...not yours.
2007-04-25 21:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.Glam M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sweet and dress nice and give him all your intrntion when your out with others, but let him have his freedom just do not croud him or push him
2007-04-25 21:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by bluebirdbabybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him at his locker or bump into him in the hall, and just say hi so that he's got you in his mind somehow
2007-04-25 21:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Cakesss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋