had a first "date" coffee...seemingly went well ...no real silences. I got her talking a lot so it flowed well enough for a first date. Problem was there wasn't a lot of laughter and little flirting. I'm used to girls being a bit flirtatious but she was pretty reserved. She had a harder time with eye contact and by the end I wasn't really paying as much attention to maintaing strong eye contact with her. Also didn't really ask too many questions about me even when I set her up to ask them through normal conversation... Strange and a bit new to me, the lack of flirtation, short of when I was in HS and some girls were shy like this. Signs point to nervousness in my opinion but who knows...what do you make of the poor eye contact & lack of flirting for a first date?
Background: She gave me her number and she also called up to reconfirm right before we were supposed to meet up and made sure I was still on. She's also just slightly above avg. look so may not have as much experience..
2007-04-25 14:24:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its worth a shot, but I would still keep it in a public place. She might just be a little insecure about herself right now and that is why she acted the way she did. And by keeping it in a public place it gives her some anonymity that might help her open up because the attention would seem not to be squarely on her.
2007-04-25 14:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by kaicey247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have hung around with goofballs. This sounds like more of a reserved young lady. It takes time to get to know someone. If you base your interests on what you find out on just the initial date, you will be dating all the wrong people.
And she called to reconfirm before you met? That at least shows someone with a head on her shoulders!
2007-04-25 14:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. All i'm able to assert is do not make your circulate too straight away and don't make your circulate too previous due. Is she incredibly into you, beacuse if so then you certainly ought to positioned your arm round her, yet while she isn't probable into you yet do not do it, you're able to desire to sense it. As for action picture determination you are able to tell if she likes if once you watch a real frightening action picture she would creep on you and positioned pay attention head on your shoulder, yet for a stable date there is not something like a stable comedy and you ought to get distinctive thoughts and function some thing to refer back to once you check together with her. It incredibly relies upon on the lady, you're able to desire to get to correctly known her then you certainly will know what action picture to %., by way of fact if this female is distinctive then you certainly can take this suggestion that i'm providing you with and wipe your butt with it by way of fact women are complicated and are specific, some thing that would desire to paintings on one won't paintings on the different.
2016-11-27 21:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just nervous and felt awkward. People are total spazzes the first two weeks of dating. Go out with her a couple more times and see how things warm up when she feels more comfortable and gets to know you more.
2007-04-25 14:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by susantpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, why the hell not. Maybe someone ran over her dog that day and she didn't want to talk about it because she was contemplating the meaning of life.
meet casually if possible.
Just make sure you go somewhere cheap.
2007-04-25 14:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say its worth a second date just so that you can get to know her better and then make a decision about if a third date should occur
2007-04-25 14:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by viper8641 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she lost interest during your date. Maybe she had to consider giving you a second chance!
2007-04-25 14:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by jazzband08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋