i need confidence. and things to talk about when my mind goes blank. THANKS!
2007-04-25 14:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by swimmer99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firtsly you have to build up your self cofidence, pamper yourself to boost it up and when your around them just be you guys love it when a girl is goofy and comfortable around them just act liek their your girlfriends dont pay attention to every little thing you say, you'll get used to it eventully..remember just be you
Hope I was a help
~Kitty
2007-04-25 14:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be more self confident in yourself. Think to yourself, these are just guys who are good friends and i enjoy hanging around them.
If you know they are into sports try to ask questions or ask if he knows any good bands/songs....(maybe you play the guitar or something and could say you want to learn a new song..does he have any ideas) or what does he do for fun? any good movies he's seen lately........Just try not to be afraid...or chickening out..be strong and confident within yourself. You can do this* (also , go to the library- they have books on self esteem, so you won't be as shy and nervous as you are now) GoodLuck*
2007-04-25 21:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im on the opposite ends . sometime i feel that why cant the girl just say they like me .. well if i was u i would start by just hanging out with them and start to no them friends first. then u can move from there. or u can just go straight out and tell them u like em. but i am to shyy for that so.. but u can go for it good luck. just talk bout their day are u doing enthing this weekk u no the usual
2007-04-25 21:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by kt01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of them as a brother or cousin. And realize, that life is way too short to be hiding. Go out and talk up a storm.
2007-04-25 21:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Maddster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk about random stuff like if they have any pets or anything
just show interest, thats all it takes
2007-04-25 21:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by viper8641 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about him. like 'i heard you're a member of this and that blah blah blah...' and i'm quite sure your conversation would progress. people love talking bout themselves anyway.
2007-04-25 21:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by dee x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋