what will it take to make my daughter come to her senses?

Answer 1

Come to her senses about what? How old is your daughter? Most children don't fully come to their senses until adulthood. They may have moments of clarity but maturity and life experiences are needed also. Don't also epect your child to ever fully see eye to eye with you. Hopefully you are rasing your daughter to be able to stand up for what she believes, while remaining respectful to others.

Answer 2

An entire childhood. Perhaps when she becomes a mother herself and asks the same question of her child.