idk what to do at all
2007-04-25 12:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
My dad thinks that ppl who go to the psychitrist are screwed up in the head, and Resents it that I'm screwed up in the. (idk mabey he thinks it reflects him or something..)
2007-04-25 12:33:58 · update #1
Sometimes grown ups are wrong.this is one of those times.
2007-04-25 12:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by empresscalls 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry that your dad is mad at you. Being diagnosed with depression is never easy. First of all, realize that it isn't your fault. Then start to take control of what you can... First thing is to start to realize how wonderful of a person you are. Start an "I am...." list and list all the good and wonderful things you are. Also realize that you can overcome this diagnosis if you chose to. All it takes is a lot of positive thinking. I know it seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel right now, but trust me, there is.... and you can and will find it. I have also experienced depression so I know what I am talking about. You are young yet and have so much to look forward to. Any time, if you need to talk, email me and I'll give you my yahoo address so we can chat.
2007-04-25 12:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your father may think that way because a lot of people do not realize that depression can be inherited, and organic with no relief of the symptoms , except for medication. other forms of depression can also be helped by therapy. either way , it is not your fault. when u start therapy or whatever, you may want to leave some literature around or get some of the Internet, so your dad may get some education. he needs to know that depression can be serious, and a lot of people have it. he needs to know it is not his fault either. if you are still having difficulty, you may want him to see your doctor, to get more insight. i know u need all the support you can get, and give your father some time to adjust to this situation. i am sure your dad cares for you, he is just having difficulty accepting the fact that his son needs some help. do not let your dad make you feel guilty, it is not your fault, and you should be respected for getting yourself the help you need. hope this helps your situation good luck to you
2007-04-25 14:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by zeek 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depression is a disease like diabetes.i dont understand why he would be mad at you you should ask him to speak with the dr who diagnosised you w/depression so he can get more info to understand depression and its effect on you and others w/ depression.if you were given medication make sure to take it as directed.if you need someone to talk to there are clinics etc help lines listed in phone book most open 24/7 call them if you need to dont be ashamed or anything like that because you have depression may people do.good luck and take care.also youns could get counseling together
2007-04-25 12:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by monica j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dad's usually seem to have problems when their kids have issues. They seem to take them personally. You have to understand that men naturally want to fix things. When we go to them with a problem and they can't fix it, they take it personally like they did something to cause it or maybe they feel worthless. Sounds like you have an old fashioned dad. Give him time and let him see the changes and how much better you are and he'll come around. Time heals all wounds.
2007-04-25 13:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bobbie D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your Dad doesen't understand that depresson is a true disease he would not be mad if you had cancer. People who have depression also suffer from the label's that folks put on them. Just take care of yourself hun and realize that your Dad is ignorant to the disease process of depression. getting better have nothing to do with willpower and you are not weak your doing the right thing getting treatment good luck to you
2007-04-25 12:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
to me .. this makes no sense .. without any background infomation and/or bais .. i would simply say this:
those people diagnosed with depression need nothing but support from those around them, especially family members. if i were you i would 1. ask your dad the reasoning behind his anger. 2. personally go over his answer and see if you can find any understanding for the way he feels 3. finally confront him about how his actions are making you feel (how they are hindering not HELPING your condition) and explain you do not appreciate it
2007-04-25 12:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by EE 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depression is no more than a marketing hoax led by the pharmaceutical companies to take all your dads hard earned money he's going to spend on all your Zoloft prescriptions.
That my friend, is why your father is mad.
2007-04-25 12:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sounds to me like your dad might of helped contributed to you being depressed in the first place...
2007-04-27 08:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by hhh_and_steph 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He might really be mad at himself because he might feel guilty that you have depression, he might think he did something wrong.
2007-04-25 12:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋