Anyone know any tricks to forget about someone you love?

Question

I need to get over someone I still love known him for about 1 year. we dated off and on for 6 months and we have been broken up for about 4 months we broke up in a bad way off and on until I decided that I couldn’t do it any more and I hurt him like he hurt me with another guy but we where already broken up! He just called one day yelling at me because I didn’t pick up the phone and he kept calling me… he knew my new boy Friend was going to be there and I just was very hurtful telling him that......

He needs to move his *** on
And that he isn’t my number one anymore
And started being very malicious like I said “ awe, is that a problem are you going to cry awe so sad!”

He told me not bother him anymore I said sorry and by that was it but I still miss him everyday

And I know now even thought I did give him a taste of his own meds still I didn’t have the right to be that mean to him and for that I am sorry and I still love him but I’m to afraid to call and I still don’t want to be with him after that

Answer 1

Welcome to a grow-ups game. In the field of love you can't play like kids are your going to have regrets. And you guys did, both of you. Don't worry it isn't because of your age, you just don't have a muture understanding of who you need in a relationship to make it work. Besides what do you expect dating off and on for 6 months? Off and on.... I mean weres the commentment. Also that was just cold what you both did to each other and shows how little you guys got deep with the conversation. Your going to hurt for a long time over this because of the actions you took, or didn't take. But realize love isn't something you turn on and off, I know you know that now you can feel it, so understand he is hurting to... now weather he'll admit it to you after that bs, or not I couldn't tell you and weather or not its a good idea to try to reach back out to him, thats your call. But don't take love so lightly.... if you have to get that upset something is wrong, very, very wrong. Besides that you have a new boyfriend and yet you don't care enough about him to see that this guy isn't worth your time.... you need to work on your relationships, boyfriends doesn't equal f-buddy, distration, or pay-back. And realize that unless you actual make a friend with one of those boyfriends your never going to have relationships that last for long, love is never enough, now using that love to make the relationship grow, well that works....