My friend has been dating her boyfriend for 3 months, and they haven't even kissed yet. Her boyfriend wants to have sex. Should they.
2007-04-25 11:32:17 · 31 answers · asked by Katie W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way. He just wants to use her for his own pleasure.
This says a lot about him, she should dump the loser.
2007-04-25 11:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if they are underage they shouldn't do anything or even think about having sex.. and your question it seems so.. if they haven't even kissed yet.. But if I'm wrong and your friends are 18 and over then it usually depends on both of them.. if they both feel comfortable with each other then go for it.. but if not then your friends need to wait.. don't do it out of curiosity.. if you are going to have sex do it because you really love that person.
2007-04-25 11:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by maria U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they shouldn't. If they haven't even kissed she is no where near ready for sex. Tell her to dump him because that's all hes after. She needs to find a better guy who will wait for the kisses and sex.
2007-04-25 11:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by fearofangels1234 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No they haven't even kissed. I say she shouldn't. At least she should wait another 3 months. If he is pressuring her he doesn't care for her and just wants sex.
2007-04-25 11:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. Tell her she better be a good girl and save it for her husband. I know that is old fashioned, but I have had premarital sex, and it's not all it's cracked up to be. Sex is only good when it is with someone you love, and usually you love your husband or wife. Tell her to keep it in her pants. Don't let the guy pressure her, if he does, come get me and I will beat some sense into him. Good luck, don't let her do it. Tell her to focus on school and get into college and then when she has earned it, and marries, she can have sex everyday if she wants.
2007-04-25 11:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Jesus, no... if they haven't even kissed, what makes them think they're ready for sex? Tell them to wait a couple more years and then think about it. They're probably too immature to handle sex right now b/c of their ages... and also, 3 months?! That's nothing. Wait it out and control your teenage hormones.
2007-04-25 11:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take it you're young. Even, so....Um...no. They have been dating for 3 months? That is WAY soon. Sounds like he is just in it to sleep with her. They haven't kissed after 3 months...what is he expecting, to get some the first night he kisses her? What a jerk. Tell her to break up with him...
If you're ever unsure, or questioning, then its no. Don't do it unless you have no doubts whatsoever.
Besides, she needs to be in love with him...and older...and wiser...and older...and more experienced in life...and older...
2007-04-25 11:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! If they haven't even kissed yet then their relationship is not serious enough to even consider sex.
2007-04-25 11:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by kaicey247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, i don't think that they are ready to move to that level... if they haven't even kissed then they shall not move on that fast.. they have got to know eachother better... i think that you should tell them that that is something that they have got to think of twice.. specially the girl, because she is the one that is going to be hurt at the end if the relationship fails!
2007-04-25 11:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by ALAC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They should at least kiss!!! i mean if a guy just wants sex than he doesn't really care for the girl at all!!
2007-04-25 11:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by softballgrl_213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, the time for sex really depends on the person. If she feels ready for sex, then she can have sex, but she shouldn't give in to peer pressure.
I wouldn't reccommend sex for her, if she hasn't even kissed yet, but if she feels ready, then she might be able to handle the bombardment of emotions that come with sex.
So, it's really up to her, but she should still remember not to give in if she doesn't want to.
2007-04-25 11:38:55 · answer #11 · answered by Caiti 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋