I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we've been really happy but its always in the back of my head. Will he cheat? He's done it before and many say, " Once a cheater, always a cheater?"
2007-04-25 11:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by Alexus V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should clarify he hasn't cheated on me that i know of. When I says he's done it before, im talking about when we got together and he cheated on his girlfriend.
2007-04-25 11:40:02 · update #1
He will so cheat again. He may be already.
2007-04-25 11:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long ago it was that he cheated and that isn't true "once a cheater always a cheater" I've cheated before but I don't do it anymore I'm actually in a committed relationship so not all stay cheaters it depends on how much you love the person to stop cheating for them.
2007-04-25 11:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Awakened 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that saying is not true. You should look at the reasons he cheated instead of the act itself. And honey - you either trust him or you don't. If you trust him then stop worrying yourself about it. If you don't - then you either need to talk with him about it to resolve your fears or move on. Trust is a big deal and sometimes there's no way to fix it.
2007-04-25 11:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by im_a_priss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust him - it's right there in your question. If there's not trust, there's no relationship. But if you want to stick it out, check up on him (without letting him know you're checking up on him, of course). Make up a fake ID online and see if you can convince him to meet up with you to hook up, and if he takes the bait, you'll know that he'd cheat.
2007-04-25 11:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.
I personally think that if he does it once;;it will only be a matter of time before he tries it again.
think about this;; has he changed? will he change?
if you answered no to those questions then move on..get someone that will treat you right..don't set yourself up to get hurt hun.
we all have these thoughts;;but if he's already done it before..be extra careful..and keep your eyes open
I'm sure your a smart girl..make the right choice!
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2007-04-25 11:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust him!!! That being said, it has been 4 years and if you haven't learned to trust him by now it's time both of you stopped wasting time on each other and call it off.
2007-04-25 11:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by mpbaker29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four years is too long---whats up here? Your nuts todo 4yrs. unless your married in twoyrs whats the point---you must have time to kill. If I was single I'd mooove oooon noooow! Slow Poke!
2007-04-25 11:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew what he was all about when you met him. You made the choice to be with him. If he cheats on you I wouldn't be surprised, and neither should you.
2007-04-25 11:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweet native american 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will cheat again..only a matter of time now...he might of even cheated already but just kept it from you
2007-04-25 11:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he cheated on his gf with you and that began the relationship... if that is right, you can't...that's how this relationship started, and probably how his next will start.
2007-04-25 11:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by bilko_ca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋