As an example: I called her at work the other day to ask her where the remote was (btw,she lost) her boss tells me she's too busy to talk-rude "B". I like 3 different shows that come on at the same time and I like to flip back and forth. I like to watch idol twice a week and asked for my dinner at that time...oh NO, she is working late..again! I called her dad the other day to borrow a few bucks until Tina get's paid..he said NO WAY...what a jerk to treat his daughter this way. We had to borrow some $$ from him a while back because I lost 4K in Vegas on a sure thing...that wasn't, now he want all the money paid back, we needed it to pay our bills. Tina is always at work because of over-time BS, her dad hates me cause I've been outa work for a few years...I quit because my boss was a jerk and I won't work under his Hitlership. Now Tina is having dinner late all the time, my mom came over the other night to fix dinner, and she fixed thing around the kitchen..Tina was very upset, didn't s
2007-04-25 10:45:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thank my mom for doing the kitchen the right way...she was just pissed...WEIRD!!! I swear her family hates me, she say's they don't but they do.
2007-04-25 10:46:42 · update #1
the other thing is the house is always dirty, Tina get's home and won't clean it the way I like. She promised to do the cleaning before I married her...
2007-04-25 10:49:15 · update #2
What's weird? You haven't been working for 2 years AND you expect wife to come home and cook 'n clean?! She works OT to make up for YOUR lost wages - you have a lot of nerve getting upset at HER!! Were you WORKING when she promised to keep the house clean? Can't expect HER to be the only one to keep "promises" - you best get off your lazy behind and get a job - any job - or my guess is Tina will be moving out. 2 years is WAY too long to out of a job!!!
2007-04-25 12:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with Tina and talk about all these things. The two of you may need to get some counseling.
I don't know what's going on in her life, but I can understand her dad being upset with you because their daughter is supporting the two of you.
You said you've been out of work for a few years?
Maybe your last boss was a jerk, but that's no reason to stop working. You need to find a job so you can pay your bills and pay back Tina's dad.
I wish you the best.
2007-04-25 10:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they might like you if you got a JOB and stopped Gambling. Your wife Tina is probably getting upset because she feels like all your doing is watching T.V. all day long and not looking for work (hence the riding of the remote control)and she's fed up supporting your sorry butt. She might very well be looking for a way to leave you and her family is supporting that idea cause she and they are sick of supporting your sad butt. I think you description of the situation paints you as a LOOSER!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-25 10:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey man, get your head out of your butt. You're free loading off this woman and she and her family are tired of it.
Get off the couch and get a job. Quit gambling, even on "sure things". Pay your own debts.
If you can't live up to your side of things, maybe it's time to move back in with Mom and let your wife enjoy her life again.
2007-04-25 10:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MAYBE STOP BEING SUCH A JERK.
either step up and be a MAN and get a job and do things around the house and stop living off your wife and making her work overtime OR leave.
in fact, i hope your wife leaves you and finds a MAN.
2007-04-25 10:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Susana M. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, regardless of who lostthe remote, get off your *** and find it your self. stupid to call her at work just to ask where the remote is. if you would get off your lazy, no-good, bummy *** and get a decent paying job, maby she wouldnt have to work all that over time to support your lazy ***. and i agree with him not loaning you any more money. he probably needs the money to pay his own bills. not the machines in vegas. and you wonder why the family dont like you? a lazy, refuses to work bum? hmmm, ive no idea why they wouldnt like you.
2007-04-25 10:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They probably want you to work and help your wife out.
2007-04-25 10:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would hate you too if I were her family. I have one word for you- LOSER
2007-04-25 10:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce her, she deserves better...
2007-04-25 16:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋