My b/f on 1month and 2weeks called me up and said that he had never been in a long term relationship before and I just don't think that I will make you happy...I think we should just be good friends...my mom has been in alot of relationships and I think that is starting to run in the family...I just want to be friends...I only said that I loved you b/c I wanted to make you happy...I so so so sorry...do you hate me?...I'm just not used to having a g/f for very long...I told him the only way to learn about long term relationships is to actually be in one...is ist not? I think that he is a total prick and a dumbass...but what does all that **** mean? I'm so mother freakin confused! HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-25 10:36:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He lied to you, and him self. Really your right, because at the center of every deep and meaningful relationship is a friendship. Really he is doing like most people classically do and using the term friendship to mean "sleep with other people" when really if you guys were still best friends you wouldn't have no need to, you'd have each other. Some where I don't know were people got the terms all crossed wired I guess for the sack of free love and f-buddies. Because of this we just have a butch of strangers fing around and not really making deep ties to their partners are themselves. The fact is he can't even give you friendship, he destoried that when he destroied the relationship, there one and the same, the only real difference being when the future comes into play, weather you meld your lives together or not, hence why your so darn confused.... darn society and its romantic love..... don't worry there is true love out there but it isn't romantic, its TRUE! And has a friendship at the center of it... good luck finding it, but once you do you'll know because they become so incrediable hard to destory.... as long of course that your true to yourself, that on the other hand takes some personal time to accomplish...
2007-04-27 07:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is no longer interested in a relationship
2007-04-27 07:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Shischkabob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋