Thank you for picking my question,Greatly apperciated.I am 23yrs old. My family is giving me a hard time because i have been single for about 3yrs now. I am willing to get to know someone long as he is decent and a nice person.I work 6days a week, long hrs. I dont get to go out that much.come to talk about looks i think i am Good looking far as people tell me.I dont believe in online dating sites. Its kinda scary for me to just meet someone online and go out with him. What should i do,I dont want to settle for less then what i deserve,now my family thinks i may swing the other way,they think i maybe a lesbian, How would you handle it? because i think guys find me boring because i go to bed at 9pm..come on if you have to get up at 7am wouldnt you like to go to sleep early? What should i do?:-(,guys will always give me the looks but would never have guts to come up to me and talk to me...my mom thinks i show up as high maintance type.Which i am not! what should i do?
2007-04-25 09:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by Noshiba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I work early too but dont go to bed at 9. Everyone has different energy. If you go to bed at 9 so what. Maybe the reason for you to stay up later hasnt appeared yet! Your life will change when somone significant enters it. No one can tell you what to do. I am stuck in a situation like yours but I am ten years older than you! You cant force these things, but you do have to play along in that if you like someone, talk to them and see where it goes. Maybe a few changes to the way you do things wouldnt harm.. see it as an experiment.
Your family just care about you and are probably just having a bit of fun? I hope so anyway! Good luck. I would say let me know if I can offer more advice on this but you may take that as quite tacky given the topic!
2007-04-25 09:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by jason e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You use getting up at 7am as an excuse to go to bed at 9pm? Perhaps you need a lot of sleep (that's 10 hours you know) but I get up at 5:30am every morning, and don't usually crash until some time during the 10pm hour. Perhaps you should consider working on learning to get by or 7 or 8 hrs of sleep, instead of 10.
There's nothing wrong with dating sites as a way to meet people. If you fear them, that's okay...but I've met MANY people, including guys I've dated, online and then real life and have had no scary experiences. Just use (un)common sense and take your time.
If you are just being selective, that's fine. No need to make excuses about it. I don't see why anyone would assume you are gay because you are single...gay people date also so what does you not dating have to do with your sexuality? Being single isn't a sign of being homosexual...it's a sign of not dating (anyone of either sex).
When you decide you want to date, you'll do things to make that happen...right now it sounds like you really aren't that into it, so why worry about it? Nothing at all wrong with being single. âº
2007-04-25 16:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shoudl always take your time when chossing someone to go out with. And your parents, friends, and relatives need not to worry because they shoudl realize that you have hard schcule at work and your working. But some parents if you aren't married by 22 think your going to be an old maid. But the relationship between a guy and you is your responsiblity not their's. They can give you advice but not force it on you. So don't worry and tell them if they think your a Lez well it's just their stupid opinion. SO go out when you can and enjoy the hunt. But some guys are just intimidated by your looks and by the way you can take care of yourself. SO want a friend just e-mial me or IM me anytime.
2007-04-25 16:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that those idiots you have in your family are on your case, and you're a good looking girl, don't be afraid to ask guys out. That's not at all unusual these days. If you have a few dates you'll shut them up. Don't feel forced into anything. Good luck.
2007-04-25 16:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta get out there, make yourself seen. try jeting out of work early every once in awhile and doing things you like that other people do, group activities. hit the bars or clubs, anything to get out there and have some fun!
I get up at 6:30 every day to go to work, and I make myself stay up til 11 or later to have fun and meet people
2007-04-25 16:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Frank K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im missing the problem. You seem decent to me. Shoot me an email on the link. Ill talk to you and get to know you :D
2007-04-25 16:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i suggest that you shouldn't bother urself,there is time for everything under the sun.at the right time,you will see the right man.your parents shouldn't be in a hurry so you will not regret at last.
2007-04-25 16:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by oge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND GUYS DON'T APPROACH YOU ITS TIME FOR YOU TO GO ON LINE.DON'T GIVE YOUR PHOTO UNTIL YOU HAVE FOUND EVERYTHING ESLE THATS RIGHT.INTERNET IS FUN IF YOU ARE NOT IN A HURRY.E.HARMONY IS ONE OF THE BEST.
2007-04-25 16:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by ELI B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i get up at 7am and i go to sleep at 12pm / 1am, and im 15.
Extend your schedules and go out.
2007-04-25 16:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by bluntsteely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋