I was in his neighborhood over the weekend. We have tried to date 2 years ago, but it didn't work out. We talk every now and then. Well me and my fiance broke up about a week ago and I went out of town to help me recoup. I don't want a relationship right now, I told this guy that lives in the other state that I was coming up to the town, if he wanted to grab some coffee or something give me a call. That was it... Well Saturday my family and I left to come back home. He called, asked what I was doing, I told him I was heading home, he asked to talk to my dad, he told dad since we were up he was going to stop by and see us, he has my dad cell number, why would he call mine wanting to talk to my dad? I use to have the biggest crush on this guy, I have known him forever, he said he's wanted to date me forever (that was 2 yrs ago). What do you guys think? I don't want a relationship right now, just wanted to catch up on old times with him.
2007-04-25 09:14:44 · 4 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's 34 and I'm 21
2007-04-25 09:15:58 · update #1
First of all, you're going to have people make a big deal about the age difference. Just remember--age is only a number! Okay--I don't think there's anything wrong with you wanting to hang out with this guy. I'm sure he's a good guy and you probably need to get away from things and just chill with someone that can take your mind off everything. That always helps. I'm sure that if you express to this other guy that you're not ready for a relationship he'll understand. If not--then it's not even worth it. Good luck :)
2007-04-25 09:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by *-Erin-* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's buddies with your dad, that's not too odd.
He's a bit older than you. At 21, you should look for someone more your age. Have fun.
2007-04-25 16:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should pay attention to yourself right now, instead of trying to work something out.
also maybe go with the flow, but make your needs your first priority.
catch up, enjoy your life- things have been rough, maybe you should just lay low.
2007-04-25 16:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by jetset_gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be because your dad is hotter than you.
2007-04-25 16:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋