I have asked this question before, but I said it wrong and everyone though he was gay. okay, I've known this guy for three years and were friends. He's constantly dropping compliments, telling me I'm smart and pretty, talks good about me even when im not around according to other people. He picks out HIS clothes according to what he thinks I'll like. I've slept with him once but he didn't just get in my pants and leave because he's still around. Everyone says he likes me. Do you think so? If so, how do I ask him out?
2007-04-25 06:58:41 · 8 answers · asked by Ashlee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him then be honest with him and let him know you like him. If I knew a guy always thought about me before he bought clothes and things like that then I would be like that is sweet. Only you know how he treats you when the two of you are alone so you should take from that and use it to your advantage if you feel the same way about him. Don't let a good guy go because you were worried about what other people say about him.
2007-04-25 07:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why people have such a problem asking people out. What is the worst he can say NO right. He can say no in a mean way and that would be kinda bad. But if he acts immature about it then you dont need to go out with him. Walk up to him and ask if you can talk to him alone. Once you have him alone tell him that you like him, and you have for a while, and youd like it very much if hed go on a date with you. If he says no oh well its not like you tried to steal his sole. Also guys like girls with confidence. Plus how will you ever know if he likes you unless you ask him.
2007-04-25 07:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a "friends with benefits" situation. Those can be tricky. I think you have to find a way to ask him, so that if he's not interested, you can quit wasting your time on him. I'm not saying you can't be friends, but you'll need to look for a more meaningful relationship elsewhere.
2007-04-25 07:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 06:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've slept with the guy and he hasn't bailed, he's worth a shot!! If you have feelings for him too, then just tell him. Then if he has feelings for you, he'll be more comfortable about doing something about it
2007-04-25 07:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by lehua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask --- dont make a big deal of it --- just two friends spending time together and if more develops then wonderful for you both
2007-04-25 07:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i said before talk to him to find out how he feels about you.
2007-04-25 07:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you ask him out..you already had sex with him and asking him out is the problem?
2007-04-25 07:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋