you're purposedly flirt with other women in front of the woman whom you like and have yet to approach her?
Is this a way of you telling her not to screw up because you have other options?
2007-04-25 06:50:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trying to make you jealous, if you act jealous then he knows you like him too, he gets a thrill out of playing this game
2007-04-25 06:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a "Game Method" (I am not going to name who invented this method since this is a debate in the Game world). The method follows as this:
A guy sees two girls an 8 and a 10. The guy would go in be as attractive personality wise as possible but he would only pay attention to the 8 rather than the 10 to make the 10 be jealous because 10s do not bring 8s to any event unless they know they will be hit on due to comparison. The 10 did not get to where she is unless she is a natural beauty or she has worked herself hard to get to that level and she would want acknowledgment. To be deprave of acknowledgment is a fear of the 10 and she will do anything to attain it.
If you do not find this guy attractive in any ways just stick up for yourself and go find another guy who appreciate you because this method can also backfire and the guy will take it as a lost.
2007-04-25 14:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Elbert L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if the guy had feelings for the other girl at some point, and either he never said anything, or she just told she wanted to be friends...etc., then I would a guy would flirt with another girl in front of her to try and show her that he doesn't need to wait for her and that look, this girl is flirting with me, you blew it.
It's a very natural reaction for some people. I wouldn't say the motives behind it are the best in the world, but it's definitely a possibility.
Like I said, it just depends on the situation.
2007-04-25 13:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just a way to get your attention. Do why not just approach you directly. And then some men are just flirts all the time, needing that positive reinforcement they think it gives them that they are desireable. Once a flirt, always a flirt. It never seems to fade away but over time, it can get on YOUR nerves and make you feel very insecure and threatened. Do you want that?
2007-04-25 13:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has yet to approach you because he may think that you don't care? Or you haven't even attempted to stop him and asked him "Why are you flirting with other women if I'm the one you want." Let him know how you feel. If you don't say anything then or do something about it, then why ask why?
2007-04-25 14:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by mr.rod33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To show her you're not a complete WUSS! When a guy does that, he should convey the message that the girl he's with is number ONE, but he likes women so much in general that he will keep it "spiced up" by flirting with another girl.
The bonus that men get by keeping their brains occupied with other women so that they can be more interesting to their number ONE girl, that's secret men stuff you are not supposed to know about.
It's what your man does when you're not around that you should be concerned with.
2007-04-25 13:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by raztaman420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an attempt to see first how you react and then also to make themselves look more attractive. The truth is, this tactic is not limited to Men. Women do this kind of thing A LOT!
2007-04-25 13:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be telling you to make your move, but he may just be flirtatious in nature and mean nothing by it. It could also be a case where he has no remorse and could care less, he's just trying to get his hands on anyone he can. It really depends on the guy and without knowing him or seeing him in other situations, hard to determain. Personally, I don't flirt. Once someone has my eye, they get my attention.
2007-04-25 13:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just being a flirt and maybe you should send him packing. I have yet to go to a resturant , look at the menu and not order at least an appetizer.
2007-04-25 13:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us don't know the difference from flirting, and being ourselves.
For us, it is just over-analyzing on your part.
If you can't trust the guy, you need to think about your relationship.
2007-04-25 13:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by khanofali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You give us too much credit. When we are around attractive women, we reflexively go into flirt mode.It's instinct.Propogation of the species and all that. mmmmmmm.......women......
Why do women find themselves drawn to men with that gold band? hmmmm?
2007-04-26 10:25:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋