What do you look for in a girl? Like for example i am good looking (I will admit) (LOL!) wud u go out with me just for that or get 2 kno me first?
2007-04-25 06:47:39 · 20 answers · asked by Aunt Lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd get to know you by going out with you. What better way? By the way, do you have nice legs? Just checking.
2007-04-25 09:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, nature has set men up to be attracted to beauty. We have to have companionship, as well.
Some of the GORGEOUS girls,have been hit on so much that they are just TIRED of men,and so come off as rude and annoyed. They are too much trouble.
I LOVE the 7s and 8s. Good looking, usually a wonderful personality, and they actually get MORE BEAUTIFUL as you get to know them.
The 10s are often snobby, feel entitled, are high-maintenance, and have ZERO personality, from being worshipped for so long by hundreds of guys. They've never had to be friendly because they have such great bodies. Guys will kiss their a ss 24/7 just to be with them.
I know I'm generalizing here, but this has been my experience.
The 10 is at her most beautiful before she opens her mouth . . . it's downhill from there. She's way too demanding, impossible to please, and eventually becomes far more trouble than she's worth.
Some even pride themselves on being a bi tch.
When I was younger, I would try to put up with this crap, but after a while it just becomes tedious, and predictably boring.
Now, I think to myself, "Keep walking, Beautiful, 'cause I don't need the hassle."
2007-04-25 14:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by sarcasm_generator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I can go out w/ a girl because of looks. Im not one of the guys that say friends first. I feel that when you become friends with someone then persue a relationship, you stand to lose more than you could gain. Id rather jump into a relationship with someone if we click at first meet, and gradually ease into things while getting to know her. Just my opinion though, there are many guys that want to get to know someone first, and a hell of a lot of girls that feel that way.
2007-04-25 13:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest with you. Everyone without exception, including myself, naturally notices the looks first of all. Then your personality and how you express yourself come in to play.
I am picky in that sense. Someone can be very pretty, but if they are stuck up, i move on before i think about it twice.
So in essence, Looks are a very good addition to the equation. But, by no means, rule out personality and traits.
2007-04-25 13:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by IHateTrolls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks might get a girl noticed, but personality is what makes a relationship.
I always want to get to know someone first.
I've known women that were stunning, that became far less attractive once I got to know them, and women that were nice looking, that became beautiful because of their personalities.
2007-04-25 13:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by gromit801 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I took the bait but now you have to reel me in lol. I really have to know there personality first but looks has a big thing in it to me but not as much as the personality.
2007-04-25 13:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks arent the most important thing. Looks only gets your foot in the door. Your personality is what gets you the job.
2007-04-25 13:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get to know you first, but thats just me. Some guys will ask you out just based on looks, to me i think thats shallow, but i guess a date is a way to get to know someone.
2007-04-25 13:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by James L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know you first. A lot of flirting and talking is done before the first date with me.
2007-04-25 14:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get to know you first, then make my decision but most guys who go out with you just for looks probably just wants to get in your pants.
2007-04-25 13:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋