My boyfriend is really big on the whole sex thing< but what got me was how he was all lilke he was going to have a wife that was a virgin. i got mad becaues i'm not a vrigin so i feel like he is using me, and other girls who thinks he care about them. am i wrong to get mad? i just allready regret the choice i made to lose my virgin, should he just through that in my face? be honest!!!
2007-04-25 06:08:40 · 5 answers · asked by Kayko~kelon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, I am sure you know one thing..Guys sometimes talk alot and don't say anything.It seems like he is just trying to keep you on your toes so he feels in control.Maybe he thinks by saying this you wont pressure him to make things become more serious.My advise to you is to say "yeah right, there isn't no virgin girl out there gonna rock your world like I do and have been doing so quit while your behind!" Then give him a devilish look and smile. I am sure he will realize (weather he says so or not) that he isn't fooling you one bit.And on the other hand if he does mean it, let him have one.I doubt he will find it so great after a few months with her and no loving.And you can go find yourself a man that will want you for you,not what you represent in the bull crap game of purity.
Good luck!
2007-04-25 06:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry to say this but your boyfriend is indeed a jerk !! You are not wrong to get mad !! And if he really loves you then he should respect the choices you have made in life instead of mocking them and making you feel guilty !! We all make some wrong choices in life, and learn from then and move on, the last thing we need is someone who keeps reminding us of what we did wrong ages ago !!!
2007-04-25 06:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by spring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means he has'nt found what he's looking for you to be his wife. Either hang in there and at the same time keep your eyes open for your husband or get out now b4 you get hurt.
2007-04-25 06:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by EarthTone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will say most anything to get you in bed...including I love you. Not all guys are that way but this just teaches you to be more careful in the future.
2007-04-25 06:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by supergoober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk and sounds like he is using you --- he has the typical male double standard --- sit him down give him the facts of life and if he does not shape up ship him out ---- best wishes
2007-04-25 06:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋