Who will u choose?
--a girl who is 18 yr old OR
--a woman who is your age and had been married before and has 2 children
2007-04-25 05:49:59 · 22 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, not that I can speak for all men but in my thought it would always depend on the person.In stereo typical form I would have to say in most cases a girl at 18 will have alot less chances of being mature and ready for a relationship of the same standard as someone in their 30's.But also, the women that was divorced with two kids also has alot on her plate and being a step parent isnt exactly always a wonderful situation,trust me I am one.So, Again this would all depend on each person and how each of their situations and maturity was.Age isnt that much of a deal if they are stable and mature.
2007-04-25 05:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm over 30. If I thought a relationship with an 18 year-old was appropriate, I'd be trolling college campuses or high schools.
On the other hand, if I don't already have children, and I'm not interested in becoming part of an 'instant family' after the relationship develops, I'm not sure that I would be interested in dating a woman my age who was married and has 2 children already.
I'd have to say neither. The 18 year old girl is too immature and I wouldn't be able to maintain her interest after the initial glow, and unless I wanted a relationship that would involve interaction with someone else's children, I wouldn't have the relationship with the woman who is my age with 2 children.
2007-04-25 05:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by CarinaPapa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've met 18 yr olds that are more mature that some 30yr olds. Having children reduces the chance, because you have to form a relationship with 3 and that is harder to make work. Other than that I'd go for the person I'm most compatible with.
But the probability of finding someone in your own age group is higher, but there are no certainties here.
2007-04-25 06:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chris W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The obvious is which woman I am more compatible with, but as a 3rd party view with no other factors I would take the one that is the same age with the kids. 18 is way young and has a lot of growing up to do. Kids to some men may be considered baggage or to the same effect, but mentally and physiologically the woman with the kids would make more sense.
2007-04-25 05:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Adam A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With that being the only details about the women I gotta believe that most 30 and older guys will take the 18 year old. No need to be tied down with raising kids and some parental responsibilities when you don't have to.
2007-04-25 05:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by pico_pica81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on where they are mentally. A woman my age, even though it has two kids, can be as immature as an 18 yo and vice versa. Age does not mean maturity nor having kids and been married before.
2007-04-25 05:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by chinucho25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off let me say I am a male and 33 I am answering this under my girlfriends address. I would say it depends Its all about love. I am currently dating the love of my life and she has a 8 year old little girl who in her own right has stolen my heart. We both have been married already to different people. She is everything to me and i wouldn't trade my situation for all the money in the world. I love her and her daughter very much and plan on marrying as soon as she is ready for that step. So i guess what I'm saying is go with what your heart is telling you to do because the heart never lies. Trust me mine is in her hands until the day i die and i couldn't be any happier.
2007-04-25 06:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ami Fox 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would choose whoever I have more chemistry with and whoever I'm more attracted to. It wouldn't matter if she was 18 or 30 and been married with 2 children.
2007-04-25 05:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by cooldude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well im well over 30 and i would not choose a lady under 20 and if it did happen then i would want to wait until she was at least 20
it depends on the people involved and the rapport between then --- i would have said the older lady --- then i met my lady and age no longer matters at all --- with the above proviso
2007-04-25 05:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
18 yr old
2007-04-25 05:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by caddy79_lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋