when my boyfriend gets real upset with me.. he gets really bad road rage.. he goes really fast or he slams on his breaks a lot and cusses me out.. i've been w/ him 4 yrs and hes jus recently started to do this.. he has anger & depression problems and hes on medicine for it.. but refuses to take it.. this stuff really makes me nervous & i love him to death.. any advice?
2007-04-25 05:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by NATASHA 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yes I have advice. His acting out his anger by bad driving practices is just his misdirecting his anger toward you onto others. Get him to go to an Anger Management therapist and take his meds before you ride with him any more. That is the best way to show your love for him. His anger problems could be fatal to you, him and others. Don't "love him to death," love him so as he does something about his problem!
2007-04-25 08:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Karoge Yaad To Har Baat Yaad Ayegi.Suhane Waqt Ki Har Mauj Thehar Jayegi.Talash Karoge Jo Humse Bether Dost Koi ..... Nigah Dur Tak Jaakar Hum Par Hi Laut Aayegi!!!
2007-04-25 05:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, when me and my boyfriend have an argument while driving the same thing happens except he does not curse me. While he is driving though I tell him about his speed.
Does he really have to drive? Why don't you drive instead? If you can't then you should tell him how scared you feel nicely when he is calm. Dealing with a person who has depression problems is very difficult however, it's no excuse for them to take advantage of another person.
2007-04-25 06:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by monalisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really a serious problem. He could kill himself, YOU, other people. There is no way to talk him into being reasonable, he has meds and won't take them. If you insist on riding when he drives, YOU could insist that he does take his meds or you will not ride with him. You could tell him that you will not ride with him, until you believe he's stopped this all together. Whatever you do, STOP being in the car when he is driving, without meds, and without any REASONING>
2007-04-25 05:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by laurel g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What, do you want to die when he goes into one of these rages? You're better off leaving...or you might end up going through the windshield one day.
2007-04-25 05:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i love him to death"
Sounds like you just might.
2007-04-25 05:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by A Word In Edgewise 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋