Ok so i have been talking to this guy for a while and we talked everyday for a long time and we have been thinking of getting in a relationship. I have really strong feeling and i care about him a lot. Well about a week ago i didnt hear from him for a day and the day before i only got a text message from him. Well saturday he called me and we talked for a while and he told me that he was sorry that he had been texting me (i was out if text messages) and that he would make it up to me. So then at 4 in the morning on sunday i got a voice mail from him saying how sorry he was and that he would make it up to me. well then i didnt here from him all that day or monday.. so monday night i sent him a message saying "dont take this wrong but i feel like you dont want to talk to me" and he sent one back like 3 hours later saying "please dont think that I just need you to be patient and understand over the next couple of weeks till exams are over and then i am all yours...sweet dreams baby".
2007-04-25 05:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by Texas angel 18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i told him that is was ok and that i am sorry that i thought that. and he told me it was ok well i havent heared from him since then...what is going on..is this some kind of test or something or is he not interested anymore
2007-04-25 05:47:26 · update #1
He is in the navy and in college just so you know how busy he gets... Bit i dont see why he cant find time for me he always as before
2007-04-25 05:55:56 · update #2
guys are funny like that. if you like him give him time. exams are hectic. if he's asked you to be patient then be patient!
2007-04-25 05:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to know for sure is to give it some time. If he is just really busy with exams than I can see that he might not have a lot of extra time to spend with you. But also keep in mind that it might be some thing more. You would know more than I would. What kind of person is he. Does he flirt with others a lot? Is he a person that would spend this much time on his exams? Those are all questions for you to ask yourself. But in the mean time, do stuff that you enjoy doing and try and keep your mind off of it. Otherwise you will just drive yourself crazy. And if he needs time for his exams than it is only going to make things worse if you bug him during that time. Enjoy your time with friends of hobbies you like to do. good luck!!
2007-04-25 06:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly_2blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I'm not in school, but being a firefighter I know how hectic life can be and I know that my g/f understood why sometimes talking with me was hit and miss. It takes alot of patience in a situation such as yours, I give you alot of credit for that. My advice is to continue being patient, but don't let life pass you by unless you believe that he is being honest with you about what is going on in his life at the moment, it is true that finals are coming and it does put alot of stress on the students as well as their significant others, just ask my g/f who is majoring in chemical engineering. Patience really is a virtue, Good luck, and I hope this helps
2007-04-25 05:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Milo's Daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well miss I dont know if you might have noticed, but no offense you dont need to act so needy. Im not trying to be mean or anything. But he might be really stressed or he might have found another girl. Dont jump to conclusions try and find a time where you two can sit down and talk, I mean really talk. I hope it works out if not let me know I may beable to help you further GOOD LUCK MISS!!
2007-04-25 05:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Niceguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabe he needs time to study for exams wait till exams get over then if he still doesn't talk to you then you need to talk to him and find out whats going on
good luck!!
2007-04-25 06:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by schoolgirl_burlew92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess when his exams are over you will see if things get back to normal, if not something else is up.
2007-04-25 05:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe at the moment his priority is to finish his exams and while he does care for you if he keeps talking to you he will concentrate on you not on his exams
2007-04-25 05:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to investigate this matter a little more you never know he might already be in a relationship
2007-04-25 05:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by hottiemilf1969 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋