I'm going through the hardest time in my life. My life is getting worst & now i've to get back on track. Not just my physical, even my mental distracted & people can see me like living in hell when they go through at their first glance. Not just I don't have a great life but I just can't control my life and my self no more. I need guidance, love & someone who I can trust in my life now. I used to have a life before, nice family, nice girl but time comes & of all the sudden I feel like I lost them although I'm still having them. I need them back. Anyone, please.... Give me something useful that I can work for asap before I'll become into trash or maybe I'll commit suicide.
2007-04-25 05:37:18 · 2 answers · asked by untitled unnamed unknown 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No one can give you a reason to live, or a plan to make your life better. You have to find those things on your own. If you try to follow someone else's plan, your life will be just as empty and hollow as it feels now.
It's okay to feel lost, devastated, and exhausted. Not everyone has an easy life all the time where they're happy and carefree and the world is shiny perfect. It's in your hands to find a way to cope with the down times, and find a ladder to begin climbing out of the darkness again.
Maybe consider finding a counselor. Also, work to find new friends and people to count on. But realize that you have to rescue yourself in this. It's an incredible weight to put on someone to tell them that if they don't give you a reason to live you'll kill yourself. That's not something people should have to bear.
But they can bear the burden of being your friend and offering you support and love and happiness again.
Good luck.
2007-04-27 06:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by gizmo52242 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I understand part of your question,although I will try to answer based on my understanding. We all need someone in our lives whom we can love, trust and confide in. You don't say why you have lost your family, but you want them back. I suggest you evaluate why your life has gotten to this point. Then look at the things you need to do to get it back and to be happy. We all make mistakes and many times it is best to evaluate what we need to do to fix things. And sometimes there is no way we can get people back. In this case we have no choice but to move on, meet new friends and be a good friend. Think seriously about all the good things you have in life. Try not to dwell on yesterday, but go forward today to start new. Good luck.
2007-04-25 12:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋