i seem to have problems with dating. i meet alot of guys but i wont date them, socialize too much with them, i wont even kiss a guy them if he doesnt seem to be interested in a serious relationship.
and while i'm getting to know a guy initially by talking to him, if i pick up on anything that i think will present a problem for ME later i wont bother. i may talk and have a little fun at the moment while i'm talking to him but thats the extent of it, sometimes i dont even give out my phone number.
when it comes to sex i just dont have sex unless its a serious involvement and we're in love and are playing for keeps.
i'd LIKE to date alot and have fun with the guys but i just dont do it because i dont want to wind up in any troublesome situations and i also dont want any guy bothering with me when i'm not really interested in him. its just too much going on these days and way too many std and hiv incidences.
do i need to change my ways or loosen up some? or am i good as i am?
2007-04-25 05:21:26 · 4 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me, you are good just the way you are. You know what you want, and you dont want to waste your time with a jerk or an idiot. You are protecting yourself emotionally (and physically). Like you, I do not bother dating someone useless I can potentially see myself being with that person.
2007-04-25 05:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by JB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try getting to know them personally a little better, by no means do you have to kiss or have sex with them, after you have done this if u still dont like him then move on, but dont go dating every guy you see thats what i like to call a hoe
2007-04-25 12:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by eclipse555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds good too me .....specially the waiting part.......u just have to loosen up a bit about giving them a chance,getting to know u better.......it might be the one so keep the way u r u just have to be more (whats the word am lookin' 4)outgoing to find the guy thats 4 u
2007-04-26 07:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by ɱýšƗȉɋǔȇ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are good as you are. You've finally came to a overstanding of what you like/dislike and if you see something you doslike then thats not for you. We all have that same right.
2007-04-25 12:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by EarthTone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋