my best friend called me this morning and told me he never wants to have sex, but maybe once a week! and she has a high sex drive, i mean shes 20 and living with him you can imagine. so shes wondering why? he says he just one of those guys who doesnt need it very much! i have to say i havent ever met a guy that would turn down sex if it was offered to him!
2007-04-25 05:00:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks everyone for your advice ill let her know. :)
2007-04-25 05:06:30 · update #1
I would think either he is gay or she needs to spicy things up a little. Maybe he is just bored with it because it is the same thing over and over again and it never changes. tell her to try a cute little outfit or something and see how he reacts to that. You just have to find out what he likes and then go from there
2007-04-25 05:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Texas angel 18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People in long term relationships often experience a drop in the frequency of sex. It's almost impossible to keep up the bunny pace indefinitely, so you shouldn't judge the frequency by that measure. However, there has to be enough for you to feel satisfied with the sexual aspect of the relationship. Since you say you live together, one thing I would perhaps suggest is just initiating sexually arousing contact with him when you are together in the bed, rather than asking for it or expecting him to initiate it. If he's too tired in the evenings, consider initiating it in the mornings on a free weekend, perhaps by lightly playing with his genitals while lying beside him to give that "morning wood" a good head start. Or you might try talking to him about exploring mutual fantasies you haven't yet explored. If you can find a way to give the sex a new twist, it may respark his interest. Do you sleep naked with him? If not, I recommend it. It's hard for a guy not to get a woody when the girl is spooning up to him all nice and warm and naked.
2016-05-18 03:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he's under a lot of stress at work. Although at 20, I'm not sure what kind of stress he might have. Obviously there is a continuum of sex drive levels, but it's unfortunate that she is so poorly matched.
2007-04-25 05:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is likely not that into her and wants something more than a child that feels the need to talk about their sex life with her friend, which is not something an adult woman would do.
2007-04-25 05:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he getting it from somewhere else? Because that is very unusal for a guy not to want sex all the time
2007-04-25 05:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes sex with guys more.....you tell her she needs to come on over here and i will help her with her problem of not getting it enough......
2007-04-25 05:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by kc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wore him out with too much sex or maybe he's bi-sexual or just attracted to other men..unfortunately it happens so i wouldn't just brush that idea off. tell her to try going a month without having sex with him and see if he starts begging for it
2007-04-25 05:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by funny monkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of people out there that prefer not doing sex... why, because its their choice!
2007-04-25 05:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by PaZ KarL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes getting from some where else.
2007-04-25 05:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats strange.
way to waste a perfectly strong sex drive, GJ GJ
2007-04-25 05:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋