I was very very very drunk recently. i called up my 'Potential' (i say potential coz were not quite there yet) boyfriend and gave him the usual drunk talk. for reasons unknown to me i then moved onto the subject of our sex...he climaxes wayyy to quickly and doesnt really give me that much pleasure, anyway i basically told him he was a rubbish ****
I FEEL SO BAD
I woke up the next morning cringing forever, he's caled me since but only to tell me how inferior he felt that night.
things ar'nt the same at all and i would do anything to get back what we had. The bad sex wasnt even that much of a issue coz i genuinely do like him but when ive had a few....
ive apologised till im blue in the face and i really dont know what to say or do anyomore.....
2007-04-25 00:18:46 · 6 answers · asked by NatNat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OUCH! That was the worst thing you could say to a man, believe me. We are very sensitive about our sexual performance and while I do think you have a right to say what you need, I don't think you probably said it very gently since you were drunk. It's going to take him a while to get over this. He is embarrassed and his ego is bruised but he will get over it eventually. Try to talk to him about it and work things out. Just be a bit m,ore gentle this time when approaching that subject.
2007-04-25 00:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear whoops!
You have apologised thats cool you have done all you can. I would suggest that you teach him how you like it, don't discuss it just make him do what you want. I can understand why he would feel inferior and if I was him I would be worried forever more now! Oh well, I guess someone had to tell him he was useless in bed!
2007-04-25 00:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
claim that you blacked out and can't remember ever saying that
or you can tell him to be a gentleman and to let you finish first...
2007-04-25 00:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by QnA34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should know that men climax sooner than women, so he should be playful first and don't think of himself only.
2007-04-25 00:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by nima k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa.. gnarly.. it hurts when the manhood is put out like that.. i dont know what to say..
2007-04-25 00:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by LION 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and find someone who can take care of your needs.
2007-04-25 00:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by tryin2help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋