how do i tactfully convey the message that his exception is not wanted nor welcomed. He puts me down, ridicules me, and in general is a dick.
2007-04-24 22:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by ifishthereforiam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
forget the tact, read him your question, then tell him "that's you! "General Dick"
How do newlyweds get to three before nine?
2007-04-24 23:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by lolliepopkidz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He disrespects you like this after you've graciously accepted him to stay with you and your husband? Well, there should be no need to be tactful about conveying any message to him at all. Older brother or not you just come right out and tell him to pack his stuff and leave. If you feel that you've done plenty for him and have taken enough of his crap then you don't owe him any explanations at all. You are newly married and you have a right to begin a life with the person you chose to be with. Not some ingrate who is causing trouble and being resentful. Don't wait a second longer or prolong it or give him any time to make you feel guilty. This is your home and he has worn out his welcome. Now show him the door and tell him to stay away from you both.
2007-04-24 23:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ur hubby likes privacy. No third person in the house being newly weds
2007-04-24 22:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Suneeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother to take the door!
It's said that the first year of marriage is the most difficult, you don't need your brother's unwelcome presence hindering your relationship with your husband.
Good luck.:)
2007-04-25 04:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by evamariehoople 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, you should not have allowed your older brother to move in your home. Before he does anything, serious it is for you to be firm and ask him leave.
2007-04-24 22:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out. Too many people around will kill your marriage.
Don't be tactful. Just tell him... GET OUT.
Have his bags packed by the door when he comes home.
2007-04-25 01:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to say anything. Open the door and boot him out. That'll say it all.
2007-04-25 00:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋