Im Forgiving BUT I Never forget?

Question

My best friend of 10 years has finally managed 2 make really angry. she been good to me. Im a very forgiving person loyal too I respect and value relationships. That's why Im picky and don't have many friends. My friend in the pass has used me many times, she even stopped talking to me once 4 about 9mnts because her ex bf told her that I was interesed in him. The moment he dumped her she came running back to being my friend. I forgave her but I can never forget on how low she thought of me.
I always knew she was a bit jealous of the way I live my life.Basically why I was being selective when it comes to dating men, and why I don't have Fcuked up life. Anyway she is married now.I thought finally this drama would end. Im dating this guy now and he asked me out for dinner tomorrow cause its my Birthday 2morrow. I mad no plans with my friend she asumed we would hang out together. When I told her Im going out 4 date . she laughed and called me Silly.

I had enough. I don't need her friendship.. I honestly wanna tell her to Fuuck off.. What do I do?

Answer 1

You love her thats obvouis, just not very deeply, really because she didn't let you, it would seem. But your brains finally telling your heart to let go.... so yep time to let go. I've had friendships that have lasted most of my life and I share your selective nature. Just do the same with your friends. And o before you maybe make a classic mistake, realize that friends can become lovers, but lovers rarly become friends. Look at your ten your relationship with your friends, (yes the same is true for same sex relationships, sex isn't invovled thou, even thou physical contanct might;huggin, punchin, wrestling, tickling, etc,etc) but if your not good friends the love only carries you so far... you and your friend carried on like two bad lovers... don't let this happen with your future relationships. Weather its lovers, friends, brother, or sisters it is a relationship and at the core of every deep, and meaningful relationship is a friendship. It seems your starting to see that with your best "friend" there.... o please don't confuse lovers with a sexual relationship, love is nothing more then a word man uses to explain the sum whole of all feelings we feel for an entity. Which we can love alot of things doesn't mean we have sex with it and it doesn't mean its good for us....