Girls, why do you always hang out in groups?

Question

It is an unwritten rule that guys should make the first move towards girls. You girls know well that guys find it difficult to approach you when you are with a group of friends. Then why do you always go with your group of friends to restaurants, bars etc? Why make yourself unapproachable?

Many of you are asking me to approach when you are in a group. But I have asked a related question "Question for girls: If you are dining with your girlfriend and a stranger guy joins you, do you get angry?" : http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmTNBlVAq02ab3fwDi_Kts3sy6IX?qid=20070420050143AABJm4i
And most of them said it is rude to intrude.

Answer 1

Herd mentality.

Women are incapable of any independant thought until they reach some time in their 30's.

Answer 2

There are many reasons and it's hard to pinpoint just one. Women feel a lot of seemingly superficial things define who they are, eg by hanging around in a group it's sending a clear message that those around her have accepted her which is a 'good thing'. Would you go for the loner or the life of the party? But it's also good to have friends to bounce things off, to talk to etc. It's just human nature to be social. It may be hard to get her on her own, but you might see her when she's walking to her car after going to a restaurant or if you know where she works you could catch her when her shift is over =)

Answer 3

I agree that it is harder for a guy to approach a group of girls but I personally don't see to many men hanging by themselves either! Listen, If you approach a woman while she is in a group, she will feel flattered that you "chose" her and if she turns her down, simply say ok and walk away...Odds are she will not turn you down...good luck!

Answer 4

1) Girls don't always hang out in groups.
2) Many guys would go to bars and such with their buddies too....
3) In certain scenarios I would feel better having my friends around. As a female it can be scary to be approached by random perhaps even sketchy guys. I am not saying you are one, but how would they know? Especially if said females are possibly drunk. Then such friends could be... "cock blockers" for them.
4) Its not super fun to be hanging out by yourself just waiting for someone to approach you who might not even ever approach you.

Answer 5

We girls are more social.......we congregate for chat (often about you boys), for reassurance (yes, you look hot), for support (yeah, he was a jerk) and security (need I explain?)

Contrary to what you may feel, if you approach a group of us, we will not eat you alive. Come and talk to the group and then like a good sheepdog, pay more attention to one.

If you have a friend with you, bring him along for support. If we dis you........shame on us. We weren't worth the effort.

Answer 6

To protect themselves, All girl do not hang in group, jut those that do not trust them self, they like the guys, but they are weak for them, so if the other girl are around they know you are not going to ask them to be along with one of them, because the other will say, no we came together and we leave together.

Answer 7

I don't, personally. I'm more of a loner....but believe me, it's sometimes hard being a loner because more guys will approach me when I am alone. This makes me rather nervous, actually, and I'm sure it is the same with other women.

Answer 8

I don't know, but isn't it also kind of an insult to all the other girls in the group? Isn't the guy basically saying she is way hotter than all of you? Since that's about all he can learn about you before talking to you..

Answer 9

ladies constantly hold close out in communities, because of fact they want to have fun. it is not constantly a bad factor. you basically might desire to seize her whilst she's on my own and confer together with her some greater.

Answer 10

It's called having friends. No one wants to go out by themselves.