Okay so the guys i am used to having in my life are drug dealers. People who are about to go to the penatentary. I do not want that no more. People who have golds in there mouth with22" rims on there car i just want a good man. i have 3 kids and this guy has none but he is a scrub i do not want to be alone Im only 23 and I think I am settling for whatever. i go to college and i am independant. So should I still leave him alone. and move on...
2007-04-24 17:42:05 · 7 answers · asked by chance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to ask yourself if this is the kind of person you want around your kids, if your answer is no then you know you have to move on. Not only is he a bad influence on your kids he's not good for you. Your going to school to better yourself education wise, take time to figure out what you want in a man and go find him, don't settle for the scrubs they'll only bring you down, not to mention if the police raid your house because he's a dealer they'll be taking you to jail too and the kids will be placed in foster care. Your better than that and your man should be too. Go get a good one.
2007-04-24 17:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, yes you should leave him, expecially if they are drug dealers, expecially if you don't want to get your kids taken off you, if child services new that you were with a drug dealer then they will step in, anyhow it's not a life for you and your children, all that gold in there mouth and there 22" rims on there cars, it's all just material stuff which can make you look good but in the end won't make them feel good, maybe it does make them feel good because that's all they know, but just by you saying should I leave him alone you realise that there is something more out there for you and your children, you will only became second to his drugs if you stuck around, the kids need a good rolemodel, you want a man that respects you and not only put's you first but your children first as well. Well I hope I have help you to come to a decision, and remember you deserve better, and so do your children, I wish you all the best, put you an your kids first. Goodluck
2007-04-25 01:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by uniqueinspirations 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't u think u should go on? Maybe u could meet another guy way better then him! Well drug dealers r changing their minds really often n the get mad sometimes 4 nothin so u could meet another guy who is always nice 2 u n a totally gentleman!
Good luck!
2007-04-25 00:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO WHAT'S THE QUESTION!?!?!?! STAY W/ A SCRUB BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING "FEELINGS" FOR HIM?
OF COURSE YOU SHOULD MOVE ON................AND DON'T LOOK BACK. YOU AREN'T 23 AND HAVE 3 KIDS FOR NOTHIN' SOUNDS LIKE YOU'VE MADE SOME BAD CHOICES IN THE PAST, BUT FINALLY HAVE A CHANCE TO MAKE SOME GOOD ONES.
2007-04-25 00:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by blazing_fire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are calling him a "scrub", you don't have the respect for him that you should in a relationship. I would move on.
2007-04-25 00:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lineya 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what you need to do to support you and your children...aint no man worth my kids seeing my bf all messed up or dealing drugs..stay away from that type and get your degree and then you will find someone that loves you that arent into drugs
2007-04-25 00:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever your heart is telling you to do and good luck baby!
2007-04-25 00:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋