That is a losing battle and you will be the one that ends up getting burnt. He probably already was using some form of drug if he is talking about it. Get out of the relationship because it will only bring you pain and you are way better than a guy that will pick drugs over you. He may agree to pick you, but odds are if he has an interest in drugs, later on when you are married...he will pick them up. Stand up for yourself, girl. You can do way better than that. Be firm and run.
2007-04-24 16:34:42
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answered by Anonymous
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It's not so easy. A lot of drugs can be addicting and cannot be stopped like a light switch. You might be in for hiding drugs and trust issues. Depends how the guy is and what kind of drugs. But tread lightly.
2007-04-24 16:35:00
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't get him to pick you, he has to want to pick you. You don't mention the type of drug and that will also make a difference. If it's pot then yeah he can just make a choice. If he is addicted to crack, move on he's lost already.
2007-04-24 16:35:18
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answered by Anonymous
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giving him an ultimatum like that wasn't a good thing to do. Asking him 'is it me? or the drugs that you want the most. If he chooses the drugs...you're better to know that now than when you got married. If he respects you and you respect him.you can sit down like two grown ppl and talk this out. Ask him why he wants to do drugs?? it's costly , illegal, addicting, and leads to no good....why does he want to have that kind of life??
GOODLUCK*
2007-04-24 16:34:47
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answered by friskymisty01 7
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It sounds like your boyfriend is a selfish bastard.
Who in their right mind would discuss their "desire" to do drugs? What reject plans the "drugging" and clears it with their girlfriend first?
What an idiot. I think you know the answer to this question but I will answer anyway. Please back away from the loser! If he loved you enough then he would choose you and put the drugs down.
Get your stuff and go. And watch your valuables around that moron.
2007-04-24 16:35:17
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answered by Talkstress 6
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You cant make him choose. He will have to do that on his own . What you need to do is choose is this the life you wont he will make his choices. You need to make yours. Will it be him or the drugs. I have been there with my first husband he choose the drugs thats why we are not together.Good Luck you are going to need it.You will be in my prayers.
2007-04-24 16:36:20
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answered by pechuneycutt 2
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My uncle grew to become into addicted to Heroin for numerous years, it quite is the toughest drug to come back down off of, and it destroys everyones existence around it, if she quite loves him, Im no longer sayin to circulate away him, yet she could def positioned off the marriage till he's sparkling, perhaps the rigidity from gettin married is what made him relapse! i think of she could make him evaluate a drug rehabilitaion software, it is going to save her a skill heartache, stress, and perhaps even save his existence!!!
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answered by nealon 4
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Stick to your guns!!!! Good for you for making the decision to not take back seat to an addiction! I wish you all the best, but DO NOT give an inch on this because if you do, eventually you'll be giving miles!
2007-04-24 16:35:06
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answered by Zen 4
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What kind of drugs? If it's weed... give him a break. Anything more hardcore then yeah, he might have a problem.
2007-04-24 16:33:26
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answered by Anonymous
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He has a problem and needs help.If you were to marry him you will never have anything because his habit would come first over all. You already see that you are not that important to him.
2007-04-24 16:35:48
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answered by southcoastgirl01 3
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