My mom was raped at college when on a date with an older man. This was about 1972 somewhere around rolla missouri. I would like to have answers about medical history since I have two children of my own. She swears she cannot remember his name. Is there any way to find him without my mom's help?
2007-04-24 16:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by iteachkids 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Not unless she filed a police report. If she does not know the name there is nothing you can do.
2007-04-24 16:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her who he was at least. A professor? A friend or an old brother of a student? If he had something to do with the college, find people who were at the college around the same time. Ask your mom to describe him, otherwise you cannot ask people. Does your mom have any college friends? Ask them, but I don't think it is ethical.
Why do you need to know the medical history so much? Just enjoy the fact that you have your family and you live thanks to this guy.
2007-04-24 16:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even want to contact him, to find out what exactly? i mean you grew up fine. with out that info, why do you really need it. i mean seriously it would do you no good unless your daughter has been diagnosed with a disease or something. the doctors can find anything thats wrong with your kids without that info, why are you making a big deal about it. you are opening up old wounds for your mom. i think you are being wierd about this because you want to know who your loser of a dad is. he raped your mom, why in the world would yo uwant ot know this guy or even get his medical history, it has nothing to do with your kids, how old are they anyway? i bet they are healthy as heck.
good luck.
2007-04-24 17:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she filed a police report and/or the guy was convicted of the rape, you really won't have a way to track him down. From what your mother says, she doesn't remember his name which let's me know that she probably didn't file charges, nor did she know this guy well enough to remember his name.
Sorry, I think this will be an unsolved mystery for you.
2007-04-24 16:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"That is my story and I'm sticking to it." Only 20% of health issues are health related, don't worry about. Or are you using this medical history line as an excuse? I bet someone in the family knows.
2007-04-24 16:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sort of in the same situation (see my last question)..
I don't think there is a way to find out who he is. Your mom may even know who he is.. but doesn't want you contacting him.
As for health, you shouldn't worry about it too much. As long as your family has regular doctor visits, they can prevent/treat anything.
2007-04-24 16:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by PlasticTrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he didn't and can't remember any of the men in the family having a mustache! My hubby had one and it was like a wire brush! He had to shave it off because my face was a mess! Red bumps!
2016-05-18 00:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother finding the mangy dog if I were you.
If you're worried about medical history just go to your doctor and be pre-screened for w/e conditions you fear.
2007-04-24 17:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the medical history is ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY information for you to know, WHY would you want to do it?
2007-04-24 17:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you would call him father. I think you want to know for reason's other than discused. I hope I'm right.
2007-04-28 04:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋